How can a closet-case such as myself meet other g*y guys in high school?

Question

And please don't tell me to join the GSA... In my school, a guy who joins the GSA might as well be walking around with a sign around his neck that says "g*y". I'll come out before graduation, sure, but I'm not quite ready yet =\

Answer 1

hahaha wow I was just going to type " You should try GSA" But, uhh.. I guess that one won't work out. ORRRR maybe you can peek in the GSA meeting and see which guys are there and then attach yourself to them hahaa.. and maybe if you think a guy is g*y, play around and be a little flirty without being obvious [since you're in the closet] Who knows, maybe a guy will approach you first.

Answer 2

You don't necessarily have to be "out n (fuc |< ing) loud", go to GSA, and if someone asks your sexuality tell them you're g*y.

That's the best I can think of right now (o_O)

Answer 3

Make subtle changes that will make you stereotypically look g*y... This may sound stupid at first, but a pink wristband or those little country-style necklaces that people wear are hardly noticeable in most cases, but an insecure g*y guy may take it as a huge sign. You have to think, though, if you're not out and they're not out, you have very little chances of finding a guy =(

It sucks, but you have to be 'available' in order for people to even have the courage to talk to you.

Answer 4

I don't think one can have it both ways, to be honest.

I mean, it's hard to find someone if you're not going to be open about your sexuality.

But if you want to be "on the fence" so to speak, there's the things that everyone knows that *are* g*y that aren't g*y, if you know what I mean. Like getting your right ear pierced, for example. But if you don't want to do that just buy rainbow stuff and wear it or something.

Answer 5

ok. so theres this boy in my pe class hes sooooo CUTE!!! but im having the same problems u are,.... i mean he pushes me around and stuf but i dont know if that hasany thing to do with it :C i HOPE  it dos! but i dout it :C im horibel at pe, i hate it lol  to be quit honest but i look foword to seeing him evry day he has teh best smile ever!!!! my school dosent have a gsa or id take apeek in it, were a cathlic school :C

Answer 6

dude i need dat help too.

email me if u got the answer!