How can a man with 3 kids not be supportive of his girlfriend's new pregnancy?

Question

How can a man with 3 kids not be supportive of his girlfriend's new pregnancy?

Answer 1

maybe because it's not his baby    duh....

Answer 2

he is a but

Answer 3

Maybe he doesn't want more kids??  Pretty serious question though if you ask me... I would talk to him and ask him, that way you know for sure!  Good luck!  

Answer 4

he need to send child support!!!!..uhggg!!what a bad father

Answer 5

Are you sure he was supportive during the other 3 pregnancy's. He may just not want more kids but after they get in the world he deals with it.  

It's not right and if he has s*x he should realize the potential for pregnancy. Perhaps someone should suggest a vasectomy so he wont have this happen again if its not something he wants.

Answer 6

Because he has been through it before and knows how difficult parenthood really is and how it complicates relationships.

Answer 7

maybe he was not looking to have any more kids that's alot of kids to support he should have talked about that with his gf before hand

Answer 8

Maybe they are already financially stretched or maybe he was hoping to get out of the relationship.  Whatever the deal is, its not always as easy for a man to get as excited as it is for a women.  Give him sometime to come around.

Answer 9

There's a lot of reasons...

Ones off the top of my head...

1. He already has 3 kids. That's more than enough..

2. They're possibly not financially stable right now.

3. They're not married yet and he's scared of her running out on him, but still expecting him to pay child support.

4. He's convinced it's not his.

5. They weren't supposed to have more kids.

Answer 10

A man with three kids and a girlfriend needs to learn how to keep "it" in his pants. Unless, his name is Bill Gates.

Answer 11

Probably should have asked him that before you got knocked up.

Answer 12

he's being selfish  

Answer 13

Now he has to send child support 4 ways.