How can an ugly person become pretty?

Question

yes i am ulgy. i dont look like my avatar. i have dark circles and everyone says they're bags and im very skinny. and people keep making fun of me and im tried of it/depressed and ive cried a billion of times. so please help!!!

-thanks

Answer 1

omgosh i totally know how ya feel!!about a year ago ppl were like omfg you're skinny as h**l and now they're like omfg you're fat as h**l.and i look really pale like im ill all the time.and flat-chested.and short too.uhh i just feel so ugly.im 16 but ppl think im 14.

Answer 2

if you are too skinny try to gain some weight but not to mcuh wear some make up do straint you hair wear skinny pants and show of some of the goods but not to much get some thing to smoth out your skin.  

Answer 3

People who say "just be yourself and don't worry about what people say" obviously have no idea. But don't worry, because nowadays, you can completely cover up any imperfections and there are specialists for everything. Work out your best features, and if you can't for some reason work it out, get your mum or a trusted friend to tell you. Then accentuate your best features and you will look so much better and be far more confident. Use a concealer to cover up your dark circles, or ask you gp for a referral to get them treated. In regards to your weight, it really depends how old you are. If you are a young teen, then don't worry, because soon you'll curve up. If you are older, don't wear really bright, plain and tight fitting tops because you will look much skinnier than you want to. I think  you should pamper yourself a bit if you are feeling down. Get your hair done, buy some good new makeup and some lovely clothes. Trust me, you will feel 100% better soon. Ands as for people making fun of you, tell someone if you are feeling hurt, and work out some clever  things to say. Good luck and i hope you feel beautiful and confident soon:) x*x

Answer 4

aww sweetheart. you can use makeup to cover the circles if they make you self conscious. one sure confidence booster is a tan! or a fake one if you don't want to damage your skin. i use the gradual tanning lotion.. dove energy glow. it works really well.

and it's good to be skinny!!!!! don't feel bad about that! it's better to be underweight than overweight. you have more clothing options, and it's much easier to gain a few pounds than to lose them.

don't feel bad. try some cosmetics. i'm not saying you need them, i'm just saying they are fun and can make you feel better about your appearance. most girls go around looking nothing like what they would really look like without the makeup lol. also try some pretty jewelry and clothes that make you feel like you look awesome, i PROMISE it helps.

Answer 5

They say that ugly people are very pretty on the inside. That means that you are very nice and a good person. Don't feel bad, everyone's different. Try and do your hair a little bit different, go for a facial, get your nails done, etc. and wear pretty clothes and you might look a little bit better.

Answer 6

Plastic surgery!

Answer 7

Get Rich and Famous...

No matter how ugly you are, everyone will think your beautiful and marry you and do anything you want lol.

For Example : Remember Anna Nicoles Smiths last husband?? You think she would have married him or even looked at him if he asked her for her # while he was sweeping the floor at McDonalds??

Answer 8

OMG!! ppl who make fun of you are so dumb....any way..go to a famous beauty salon and ask'em for a full makeover  that would really help and remember that everyone has his beauty so you're not UGLY!!...(:

Answer 9

Get some beauty & style magazines with articles on what hairstyles are good for your hair type/face shape, what make-up techniques & colors would be best for your skin tone and facial structure, and what types of clothes would be best for your body type.  If trying to figure it out for yourself proves to be too hard (sometimes the magazines aren't real clear) try a makeover have have the stylist explain your face shape, hair type, etc so that when styles change in the coming years you'll know where you're at and you can more easily pick out what's right for you.  Many times just a small tweak of your current hairstyle, makeup and clothing can make a huge difference.  And I know it's hard to believe it now, but those a**holes making fun of you are insecure themselves.  Life gets so much better once you get to college, where people are much more accepting of those who don't exactly fit the "norm".  Hang in there.

Answer 10

i think no woman is ugly the problem is ur not taking care of urself ur self esteem is way low so put ur head up get a makeover sum new clothing a new positive attitude n wala a new beuatiful u...4 those dark circles get sum cream n if ur very skinny well start getting more proteins n calories 4 everything theres a solution it has to be in u if u want 1...stop crying because of others making fun of u take care of urself n b happy  ;  )

Answer 11

wear make-up!!

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Answer 12

you say you're very very skinny which suggests you dont eat the correct thing or right amount.

this would lead to bad skin or dark circles which you have said you have.

Instead of feeling sorry for yourself try and take time out to look after yourself.

e.g make sure you're eating right- plenty of fruit. You MUST have breakfast.

take care of your skin get a routine. Also get into a daily routine for bedtime. make sure you dont play any games, watch tv or eat atleast 2 hours before you try to sleep. Take a bath and spend time pampering yourself. Relax and read a book, get some quizz books and do some puzzles. You should find you sleep better which could also get rid of those dark circles.

As for being "pretty" tell me what does define this?

Already you should feel better for more sleep and the pampering your skin should glow!

Maybe get a hairdresser to suggest some new styles that may suit you.

A big part of feeling appearing attractive is feeling it.

Answer 13

If it makes you feel better, most people are not all that attractive and most people aren’t as attractive as they think they are.

Another thing is that the girls in HS today that are developed are the fat chics of tomorrow...its true! The skinny girls are the ones that stay slim as adults.

You can only do so much to change your look. I would do the basics and use makeup, have the hair done and be clean….that all you can do about that. In addition, look at your attitude on life. There is nothing more attractive then a genuinely nice and pleasant person who is self confident…not cocky or arrogant just balanced.

The only other thing you can control is your body and that you can change. Your body is just clay in your hands waiting to be molded into a smoken hot beach body. You can control how it looks, how tone it is etc. I would start weight training and maybe get into running or cycling. I cycle myself and love it.

Answer 14

No-ones ugly, people who say that are just jealous or trying to push you down to climb up in their own minds that they're prettier. I'm sure that you're really pretty, even if you don't think so.

Answer 15

I've felt the same way.

I never thought I was pretty; i had dark circles, bags under my eyes, acne, and glasses, and i always chewed on my nails.

I'm going into high school in September, so I've made an entire change.

I bought makeup to conceal my acne and dark circles as well as an acne treatment system.

I bought a product to reduce the puffiness of my eyes

I got new glasses that are more "in style"

and I grew out my nails.

It's all about change. Make a list, that's what i did, and accomplish everything on it

Answer 16

I had the same problem, please read my answer, I think I can help.

First, people who think they're hot, make people think that they are. Let me explain:

Beauty is subjective. Sometimes people are seen as beautiful by some and ugly by others. If you act like your hot, people will think, "this person must be hot if they're so confident. I must be wrong", and then they will act like you're hot.

For the dark circles, go to the beauty counter at your closest department store and have the lady match you to a concealer that will cover them.

Get a new haircut, it will boost your self-esteem. Don't be cheap about it either, ask around and go somewhere GOOD. Not just cheap.

Dress in bright colors, people will think you are a bright and happy person, and will be attracted to you.

Answer 17

Do something new. This will build your confidence and increase your inner beauty. As for your eyes, try concealer. Go to Boots or somewhere and they will give you advice on what's the best colour for you. Hope this helps.

Answer 18

shut up...ure not ugly...u jus don't have the right ingredients of make up and SELF CONFIDENCE...skinny people r so in right now.. i wish i was a lil smaller... if people like oprah winfrey can look good u can.im into make up and styling i could do u over..but duno u tht much but stil...dnt luk down.try doing modeling..anything to make u feel pretty becoz everybody is unless if ure flavor flav..im sure ure not?

Answer 19

Have you watched the secret? In order to become 'pretty' you need to learn to love yourself for who you are. I used to get teased at school all the time and now the same guys hit on me. You need some kind of confidence boost!! Write a list of everything that you DO love about yourself and what you like about your looks, you need to accentuate your good attributes, there is no such thing as ugly. I hope you feel better soon :)  

Answer 20

Ah hun, I'm so sorry you feel this way.  The only reason why people insult others is because they have a low self esteem.  Those other people are trying to make themselves feel better at your expense, so try not to pay them much attention (I know it's easier said then done).

Dark circles under your eyes can be covered with cover-up and foundation.

Often department stores will provide you with a free make over and they can show you how to apply makeup.  Sears, the Bay... anywhere like that at one of the makeup counters.  Ask questions before you have it done to make sure you won't be charged anything. Sometimes you just need to purchase one product.

Then go to a drug store and buy similar products at a lower cost.  

And you live in an age where everyone wants to be skinny, so embrace it and flaunt it.

  

Answer 21

No matter who you are, people wil find something to crticize about.  I am sure that you have friends and someone who loves/likes you just as you are. I went through someting similar in my younger years, and as you age and mature you will really understand why people do such things to one another, especially in one's younger years.

You are not alone.  Probably those people teasing you do not feel good about themselves, so it elvates them, or so they think, to find negative things to point out.

Answer 22

get a make-over. new hair make-up ect. go to a professional. you'll feel tons better about yourself afterwards!

and don't look at the negatives, look at the positives about yourself for example your skinny- thats a good thing, i bet someone you know is jelous of your skinnyness!

just try and accept yourself, you may not be as bad as you think anyway. confidence and a smile is the prettiest thing.

Answer 23

Do your hair differently!

Find makeup that will cover your dark circles!

Where foundation, eyeliner, and mascara!

Dress Better!

Go for a jog everyday!

Answer 24

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.  You are the beholder right now and only you can make yourself pretty to your liking.  I look in the mirror and get mad because my body doesn't look like it did before I had children.  But that is my problem and only I can fix it.  My husband doesn't complain about it but I know its there.  

I hope you will make yourself pretty for YOU and no one else.  That is where it starts.  When I don't wear makeup for a while my self esteem goes down.  When I fix myself up, I feel great.  I feel pretty.  Everyone else may not think so but that does not matter to me.

Please don't cry over your looks, God made everyone the way they are for a reason. One of my ears is lower than the other, I have no eye brows, I can't wear mascara cause of thinning eye lashes.  

Go to a salon and get your hair done really pretty and then to the mall for a make up lesson from the make up counter.  You will be so happy.

Answer 25

I love you. *hug*

Just remember, others may think they are pretty, but their self righteous attitude will keep them ugly... Being your true self will make you beautiful, no matter what "flaws" you may seem to have.

Please don't cry out of sorrow. Cry because you haven't found the people who love you...yet... but you will. I promise you will.

Answer 26

getting more healthly eating good being in good shape if you run that can make you look better and look younger

so what im trying to say is being more healthly can make you look better to

I hope this is a good answer for you

Answer 27

hey sweetie

nobody can look beautiful if they don't try.  u have to put the effort in.  

dark under eye circles?  get some more sleep.  eat healthier.  and et a very light coloured concealer or foundation to cover them up.  make-up works wonders!!! :)  also if ur gonna use dark eye make-up like mascara - be careful coz it can make them look worse it will make u have terrible dark circles.. if u do buy mascara. buy eye make up remover and cotton buds aswell so u can remove it.  try eating a bit more but healthier and do some exericse to built up some muscle and get some curves.  guys love curvy (not fat) women.  get ur hair done,, ask the hair dresser for advice on what could look the best on you, find the right one for ur face shape and skin tone.  last but not least -- CLOTHES!!!  clothes to make ur figure look fantastic, try go shopping with someone who looks like they know what they are doing, if u can't do that then do some research and study what other people wear and how outfits go together -- find what u like!! :)  hope this helps honey!!  all the best xoxo and remember u are not ugly!! don't ever let anyone bring u down!!!  

Answer 28

Personally, i don't believe plastic surgery is right. I think everybody looks perfect naturally don't take any notice what others think of you, but if you care that much it wont hurt to put a little make up on just natural touches like mascara foundation (cover achne or scars) and cucumber slices help dark circles so lye down relax and close your eyes and chuck some cucumber on. New Hairstyle? why not. But do not change yourself and don't spend loads of money on products and make up and don't take any notice that people tease because of how skinny you are you are beautiful because god made everybody that way. I am sure you have a great personality that everybody loves!

xx

Answer 29

you know what sweetheart, your feeling is same just like mine best friend feeling...she also depressed about her looks too....dont say you're ugly and you're NOT ugly, go with some make-up, hair, skin product and cloths and jewelly.

Ya know what, famous Estee Lauder quotes saying that

"" Beauty is an attitude. There's no secret. Why are all brides beautiful? Because on their wedding day they care about how they look. There are no ugly women - only women who don't care or who don't believe they're attractive. """  

Answer 30

aww don't feel bad trustt me!  most celebs look just like normal people without all their slap on.  infact some even look really ugly

http://www.hereinreality.com/makeup.htm

http://www.metacafe.com/watch/450700/cel...

hopefuli thy will make you feel a bit better.  but ..you probably aren't ugly, everyone thinks that they look ugly at some points unless you're really self absorbed so don't feel bad. try putting on makeup or get a friend to come over and help you do it.

Answer 31

All that matters is if you're healthy. Think about it that is what biologically defines beauty. So start eating the right foods, exercise, and just take care of yourself. You only get one body so treat it right and learn to appreciate your unique beauty and try not to compare yourself to others.