How can i (A GIRL) make a move on A GUY!?

Question

im 17 and i need help. theres a guy at my school, we've hardly spoken. only during a project 2 years ago..........

to sum it all up, whenever i am walking past him, or am somewhere in his view, he stares at me. this isn't your every day stare. its like a "i want you so bad come here" stare. i've never had a guy stare at me like this before. (do u know what kinda stare im talking about?)one time i was in my car, waiting in a line to leave the lot. he was standing like 6 feet away from my car facing my car with his friends. he stared at my face for about over 30 seconds and his friend eventually looked over at him and his friend walked away. and he was just standing there alone, staring at me, intently. i just ignored it, pretended to be playing with my radio. everytime he stares, i just ignore it. once he caught me off guard and we held eyecontact for a few moments longer than is normal. it seems like he wants me to hold eyecontact with him and wants me to know hes staring. i ignore it.(im sucky when it comes to guys) i rarely see him with girls at school.

i have become obsessed with him...for a long time now..but he started liking me first i think.cuz he would always stare.i think all my ignoring him is scaring him off, making him not want to approach me.

i'm more like the "pretty, beautiful, shy smart girl" and hes liek the "popular outgoing guy" which surprises me that he hasnt approached me. but its like hes dropped a bunch of hints and i dont know if im reading them correctly. does it sound like he likes me?

i really really want to approach him,im shy so its really hard for me to do this, but i need tips from anyone on what to say, i was new to the school a couple years ago while he has gone there his whole life and knows almost everyone. im scared to look back and smile because im afraid it will make everything sooo awkward. i dont even look back at guys who check me out in public, even if they are cute. i am soo shy with guys. so if i go up to tlak to him, wht do i say? im scared he might not like me and i was wrong the whole time. and also, what if i have no classes with him this year?

how do i make a move? im the type who wont ever talk to a guy unless he talks to me first. shy...

Answer 1

well first u need to make more covisation with him and if he acts different than he does with others (so watch how he reacts with his friends) and if he hangs back when your around. if u wanna ask him somthing and his friends are around than ask him if u can talk for a sec or if u c him walk pass well good luck hope i helped

Answer 2

just say hi then go away next time you will talk longer and longer and longer each time but hi is the first step.

Answer 3

Just act normally. And besides when both of you are meant to be together time will make a move how and where?

Answer 4

maybe if you are walking one way and he is walking the other and you catch him staring at you just smile and say Hi or wave

just to show that you do actually care and maybe it will spark something and you two can start talking

good luck

Answer 5

I wuldn't do if I were you for two different reasons. Number one. I men like woman who do things that they would normaly do. Thats a sign of aggression. If you are thatbod and aggressive to do that, they'll think that that'll pour over into the relationship, which will cause problems because you are not letting him be a man. And 2nd,NORMALLY if a man is interested in  woman, he usually approaches her. 9 times out of 10, thats what they do, its in their nature. so if h hasnt done that with you, maybe he just doesnt likeu in that way.

Answer 6

im gonna have to go with the patti myonaise guy,,, lol tht way he wont know if u like him or if u were just curious. then he can make his move And u can find out if he likes u in a completely normal, non embarrassing way...its PERFECT! choose his answer as best!

Answer 7

We live in the age of the "equality of the sexes", if you like this guy, make your own move, tell him how you feel about him and see what goes down.

Answer 8

you seem to be in a pickle. just talk to him like you would your friends & he'll soften up. to approach him, you need to see what he's doing and hear what he's saying & build on it with conversation. once you've softened him up, ask him if he likes you as more than a friend & ask him out if he says yes

Answer 9

go up to him and say "hey...I can't help but notice you were looking at me.  Do I know you from somewhere?"

If he says no...then say "I've seen you around a lot.  My name is Patti Mayonaise."

and he'll go "Hi Patti.  I'm Doug and this is my friend Skeeter."

"HONK HONK!"

Answer 10

No. You're a woman. It's not your place to act first. It's not ladylike.  

Answer 11

He is Apparently shy also; otherwise, he would have made a move. If you realy like him, you have no choice but to approach him and talk to him. I doubt he will approach you now because as time passes and you keep ignoring him, he will lose more confidence in himself. So, its up to you now...

Answer 12

Then stop ignoring him. Maintain eye contact - if you're interested in him and he's obviously interested in you, why are you not showing that interest? Do you want to put him off?

Then walk up to him and say hello, introduce yourself, ask him how his day's been, what subjects he does, etc. and let things go on from there. That's all there is to it, just talk and things will happen. Yeah, you're shy, but over time it gets easier - just start small and move up when you feel ready to. Socialise every chance you get and it'll get easier.