How can i Persuade my father and i do no what to decide?

Question

i just want to marry, but my father doesn't want, b/c he(my B. friend) is catholic and we are orthodox,

do you think our love depend on Religion? i do no what to decide, i love my dad so much, but most of the time he doesn't want me to take action by myself. that is why he refuse me to marry my B.friend.

i do no what to tell my B.friend, he thought to talk to my dad soon,

shall i take my friend my home or first to persuade my dad?

i want to marry my lover. give me same idea, and make me strong, please.

Answer 1

ha ha ha I'm orthodox!  anyway congrats that you found your soul mate! tell your dad this... "dad i am marrying him either way, but i would like your blessing to go with it!" say something like that  

Answer 2

give ur boyfreind the chance ot pursade ur father. if that doesn't work confront him again and tell him that u r sick him not treating right. U should be allowed a little freedom, and he can never stand in ur way of mariage if ur of legal age. tell him ur going ot mary the boy w/ or w/o his blessing

Answer 3

In the end, this needs to be your decision. We're talking about the rest of your life, not his. Your dad has had his life to live, and maybe he thinks he made some mistakes, but he can't tell you how to live your life. If you're over 18, which I'm assuming you are, he has no control. It's nice to want his blessing, but it's your decision to make.

That said, it can definitely be a very hard decision, and you might have a hard time convincing him. My dad was Christian when he married my mom, who was Jewish, and his parents stopped speaking to him. But he made the decision he knew he needed to make. I'm their grandson now, 16 years old, and they still don't talk to me or anyone else in my family. Though he might not like that, he's happy with his family.

So in the end, it's your decision. Talk to your dad, tell him that you love your boyfriend and that you know he's the one you will spend the rest of your life with. Maybe say that you're not planning on changing your religion, and when the time comes for kids, you'll talk about it with your boyfriend and decide how to approach it. But right now, just do what's best for you. Your dad can't live your life for you.

And be strong. You'll make the right choice.

Answer 4

i'd just let your dad see how happy you two are together. after all, we're all people, and when seeing you two together it's not like he'd be acting differently as he's a catholic is it.

Answer 5

love doesnt depend on religion

this isnt my video but watch it

it talks about his parents not

letting him have interatial babys

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oDigaWrvC...