How can i be a Social Butterfly without getting in trouble?

Question

I am shy towards popular people and social people. They all tend to gossip and i want to be a Social Butterfly without talking behind some ones back. I tend to be super quiet and when i do talk, i mumble. How can i gain confidence and become a Social butterfly without getting in trouble

Answer 1

Be the sweet you ,and don't worrie .

Answer 2

If you mean trouble by "drama" then that's very difficult. Just don't bring up any drama conversations and if someone starts talking about anything drama related always stay neutral.

It's really hard to be the outgoing AND avoid drama though. It's usually one or the other.