How can i be a normal teen, how can i be normal?

Question

Well tomorrow ill be starting my first job, and i am extremly shy, Its very hard for me to meet new people and make friends. How can i make a good first impression and make friends at my work, and not make them think that i am a weirdo. I really need help, i really need to CHANGE, i cant go through life like this....You really do not know how it is, and how i feel knowing that i only have 2-3 friends.Might be my low self esteem? I'm overweight and every time i look at my self i think that everyone are going to hate me cause i am fat, and that i cant make any friends because of my weight....I think of my self as the ugliest person ALIVE...

I'm 16.

Thank you all.

Answer 1

If you are a nice person, friendly, loyal, helpful, respectful, people will not even notice you have some extra weight. Let the nice person inside show, and the weight won't even be an issue. If it really bothers you, work on trying to lose some weight.. Walking is great exercise. Anything you do more than what you are doing now is going to use up calories. Stay away from fats and sugars.. Lose a little weight and be a nice person.

Answer 2

hey im alot like that too and i was soo freaked out the i stared my first job at tim hortons =P

but ya seriously just talk to people i noe its hard cuz im really shy to but once you meet one person and are able to talk to them ur confidence goes up soo much

good luck =)