How can i be a punkish goth that my parents with aprove???

Question

i wanna be punk rockish goth but my mom doesnt really aprove.i havent talked to her about it because i dont know what to say and know that if i dont have anything planned to say we'll end up in a big fight.

i mean- i wanna be punkish rock goth. i dont know what to call it, but everytime i put on a backwards hat, my mom takes it off. and she kinda has a small problem with my make up.

i really like rock and hard rock and the coler black and stuff, but my moms not that comfortable with it.

what should i do and say to my mom???

pleas, please, PLEASE help!

Answer 1

doon't go overboard.  Start with small chnges, like a black t shirt. Then work your way up to the way you want to look, one change at a time.  Each time your mother yells at you, let her know calmly that this is the way you feel expresses your emotions best, and you aren't changing on the inside, only your outer appearance.  This worked for me, eventually my mom and dad let it go.

Answer 2

it souynds like your trying to be a pucking goth not that u are a punkish got u shouldnt try to be anything ur not if this is who u are. then explain to your mom this is who u are and ur nto gonna change that be yourself andand with time she should accept its who u are  

Answer 3

you can wear punkish colors like hot pink, blue, or purple. wear them as a layering over a cute black top. wear the colors in a pattern for a more punk rocker look. or you can make them approve by wearing punk rocker accessories with the punk colors.

Hope this helps!♡✰

Answer 4

If you want to dress in a punk goth way, then compare it to something your parents would hate even more, like tattoos and piercings. Say, "It's better than a big tattoo, mom!!" or "I can change my clothes and hair grows out so it's not like getting my tongue or eyebrow pierced!!"

Maybe she'll ease up on things that can easily be changed, like clothing, hair, and makeup if she thinks of extreme alternatives that you could be wanting to do but don't.