How can i be a smoother talker with women?

Question

i can talk just fine to friends, but put an attractive, funny girl in front of me and bam! i cant say anything, and when i do it always comes out awkward. so ya any help would be awesome.

also, women, if you like a guy to do/say something especially much, tell me. im tryin to get back into the dating seen but its been a while.

Answer 1

Just be confident in yourself, talk slow and NOT loudly, just normal-soft.  I like it when guys touch my hand like when we are sitting at a bar or a table talking... not like to hold my hand, just to put emphasis on the conversation, like while we are laughing or something?!  Don't brag on yourself or BUILD yourself up too much...and dont laugh just for no reason.  

Above all, be confident, but not arrogant!  Good luck and GO GET EM ;)

Answer 2

Well, I guess it goes without saying, but women like confidence.  I'm not saying we expect you to sweep us off our feet and have your every line be gold, but we can tell when you're not being sincere with us.  The biggest thing that I can recommend is to not look at every girl that comes up to you as a potential date, but to talk to her like she's one of your friends right off the bat.  Sure, we like to be flirted with and sweet talked sometimes, but we also like to just get to know people, and if we get a chance to see what you're like around people you AREN'T trying to date, we'll have a much better idea of what sort of person you are.

I always like it when guys ask what sort of books or games or movies I'm into and are actually interested in what I have to say, or even if they mention something I've never heard about before.  It's always been the fastest way to hook my interest.  But if my husband hadn't treated me like I was one of the gang right off the bat when I first met him so I found out what he was really like (not who he might have been trying to be for a pretty girl) I might not have fallen for him as hard as I did.

Good luck, and I hope I helped at least a little.

Answer 3

Please don't try to be a smooth talker. I've had several experiences where a guy came off as trying to be smooth and it was dumb. Later, I met the same guys under other circumstances (when I wasn't available) and they talked to me normally and I liked them. I even told this one guy, "If you had just been yourself, like you are now, I would have wanted to go out with you."

You need to modify your mode of speech somewhat around a woman, (no crass jokes or vulgar language), but talking with us like we are friends is the best way.

Answer 4

honey, just be yourself...we like that. beautiful or not...you should be able to just hold a normal conversation with any woman. i love a guy who likes to talk, it's great!! i'm sure you'll do fine but remember, just be yourself...if she doesn't like you then it wasn't meant to be =)

Answer 5

Practice

Answer 6

Just remember that they are just people and ask them questions about them-self and actually listen to the answer.