How can i be less of a stuck up *********?

Question

i didn't think i was stuck up until i started loosing friends and a lot of people started hating me and i didn't know why and i finally pulled my head out of the sand and realized i was a stuck up b*tch and i need to change...I'm very judge mental and hate people that don't wear designer clothes or people who are ugly and have bad hair or if they're poor and i wont wear anything that's not designer and i always give people who aren't like me dirty looks and i wont leave the house with out my hair done and my make up on and i always have my nails done and I'm always mean to people to their face and i always have to have the hottest phone...what also made me realize this is that i like this guy and hes pretty easy going and he doesn't like me because I'm to high maintenance and stuck up and my sister told me i walk around like i rule the universe,,,i really really really want to change and be a better person so how can i be less high maintenence and not such a stuck up b*tch?

Answer 1

By weighing the consequences and not being so in love with yourself which, apparently, hasn't gotten you very far in the relationship department.  Life is made up of choices and you shouldn't need advice on how to change yours from self-centred to other people centred.  Without self-discipline you are doomed to failure in every aspect of your life.

Answer 2

Make ur parent not give you what you want for a month and not too much allowance, only money for food.  This will make you not shop for designer and all the high maintenance things.  Try to see life as regular person, your still young and you can change.  I sugguest you change now before in high school it will be worse.  BC pple dont like stuck up ppl.

Answer 3

Most of the things you do to "prim" yourself up are not necessary. You don't need to style your hair a different way every time you go out, and you don't need to paste on the make-up either. When you see someone that doesn't wear designer clothes or someone that doesn't wear make-up, don't treat them any differently—don't be mean to their face and make fun of their looks. It's a terrible thing to hurt other people, especially if you do it on purpose.

Just be nicer to people! It may seem hard but you really need to think about everything you say to everyone you talk too. Words mean a lot; and they can really hurt. So you need to make sure that you know what you're going to say before you say it.

Be friendly. Go up to someone and talk to them. Don't pick the girls that just wear pounds of make-up and wear miniskirts and flaunt designer clothes. Go up to someone "different" and start a conversation with them. Usually the girls (or boys) who don't dress themselves up all the time and act snotty to everyone tend to be very nice and kind people; people you want to be friends with.

I hope this helped in some way; good luck sweetie.

-Dee

Answer 4

I'm in the 8th grade too and I kinda know what you're talking about. First what you need to do is start talking to people that you normally wouldn't talk to. Don't care about what people look like. Not everyone at your school can afford designer clothing, get their nails done all the time, and I'm pretty sure not everyone thinks you're all that pretty. People probably think you're fake.

I don't think that you are mean because you want to make yourself better but you need to let people get to know the real you. Try doing your own nails sometime, invite girls that seem nice to your house or hang out with them. Try to give off a nice image. Don't give people dirty looks, accept people. Not everyone is going to be nice to you at first. Try to be nice, go out and talk to people, try and get some of your old friends back, lose some of your snobbishness. Good Luck =)

Answer 5

u baisicly have to be the oppisote of who you are

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