How can i be more friendly?

Question

Im kind of a shy person , i want to me more of a talker but its just so hard for me to keep a convo going sometimes

Answer 1

I have same problem, you just can't change your whole personality. One good think is you will know when you soul mate comes along because you will feel comfortable and relaxed, you'll know.

Answer 2

smile more..most shy people look unapproachable and if you smile or just look not unhappy then people will want to talk to you more.

Answer 3

I used to be quite shy back in the day, and it can be frustrating.

When you're having a convo with someone try relating what they are saying to your own life, look for similarities.

say they person you are talking to is telling you a story about how they always lock themselves out of their car. Tell them a funny story about a time you did it or a person in your life who is the same way. Not only now are you talking more but you're also letting that person know that you were listening to what they were telling you by repeating the topic and this usally van keep a convo rolling because it keeps you both involved.

Don't overkill this though. it can get annoying but for the most part fone naturally it's an awesome way to keep the convo's going and help get you to loosen up open up and get to talking!!!

good luck