How can i be more social ?

Question

i use to be kinda shy but now im feeling more outgoing then ever . like i can talk to anyone speak in front of the class no problem .

but the problem is latly my face turns red for no reason like when i ask for help and the teachers attention is on me and they are very close i get uncomptable and turn red .

so how can i learn to relax and be more comptable around people its only some people that i have this problem with .

why ? and how can i help it .

Answer 1

SO !  You want to be with the in crowd. It's easy you have to be more hatefull of folks. Stab them in th back more. Care nothing for your parents and the elderly in society.Rules were made to be broken so what are you waiting for. Good luck. Lylo.

Answer 2

join more teams or clubs and just be yourself. dont worry about what others think.

Answer 3

In the back of your mind you are subconsciously still worried about what people think. Just relax and completely not care what people think of you and it should help. It isn't easy when you have learned to care what they think, but after some time practicing it should become second nature and easy for you. Keep socializing too, it will become easier.Good luck.

P.S. If Lylo Lil is insinuating I mean be cruel.. That is not what I am saying. Some people are so worried about looking stupid or people not liking them that  it hinders them socializing with new people or being outgoing.