How can i be popular in my high school so the girl of my dreams can like me?

Question

ive been tryin to talk to her but i was to scared to even do it! and plus shes with the popular ppl!!! is clothes or personality the answer!! O_O

Answer 1

First face the fact that you can not control other people.  You can't make someone like you.  You can, however, give them the opportunity to realize that you are likable.  But you have to take a chance.  As for dress, neat and clean are most important.  Forget worrying about labels.  If she checks your labels first find someone else.  Be pleasant and honest and diplomatic.  Be open to being turned down and make up your mind to be graceful about it.  Chances are if you accept no for an answer and move on she'll remember that and you may have a chance later on.  You need to learn how to talk.  One word spoken clearly at a time.  Don't try to be profound.  Say hello in what ever way is popular.  Ask questions about her.  If she has any brains she will do the same and before you know it you are talking.

If she turns out to be uninterested it's not the end of the world just a simple disappointment. You will live and find someone else to be interested in.

Answer 2

yessss. personality is a hugeeee thing. girls like guys with real personalitys. and ones who dont care to be them selves! so go up to her, and be like "hey" and if she says hi start a conversation with her.

Answer 3

to be honest be yourself girls dont like fakes.

Answer 4

Be yourself. Having a great personality is key.

Honestly, you shouldn't want to be with anyone that you would have to change yourself. Your heart and mind is what's important. If she doesn't think so, then you shouldn't want to be with her.

If she's the girl you want, approach her when she's alone. Swallow your fears. Carpe Diem- seize the day.

Answer 5

what attracts me to guys is sarcasm but in a sweet funny way not a mean way.

also when guys are nice but not too nice...

if shes the quiet type she might like the nice guys...

if shes loud and crazy she might like the bad boy but nice type....

you don'tt have to be a bad boy... just give that vibe..

anyways just be yourself... i know it sounds lame but hey it works for me =]

Answer 6

Pokemon.

Answer 7

be yourself- be brave-

and that should be enough

if she doesnt like you still,then leave her,she's not worth it.

Answer 8

Excel at something she's interested in. Be yourself. Find your own style. Don't be self-conscious around her...be bold!