How can i become popular?

Question

im in 8th grade right now. and some people find me a ***** and some people say im mean

im not really pretty either

i do have a couple friends that i like but i want more people to talk about me. and im shy but i could be outgoing if i really push myself into saying something that i want.

what can i do??

Answer 1

thats stupid.

just be yourself and be friends with who you can.

why be 'popular?'

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Answer 2

being popular seriously isn't all it's cracked up to be.

you have to look & act your best all the time, & if you don't, then everyone will tell you about it.

don't worry about petty things like becoming popular. i was popular last year but i'm going to keep out of the limelight this year as i would rather concentrate on my grades & just having good friends than being looked up to by people & having massive groups of friends who just end up using you.

Answer 3

why would you want to be popular?

Do you seriously obsess this much over what people might think about you?

I'm sorry, but thats pathetic.

Just be yourself.

You don't have to desperately impress your friends just so they will like you.

I think its a phase your going through..you will grow out of it. I remember in middle school popularity mattered a lot.

In high school, you don't even notice who the "popular" people are.

Just be yourself, don't be fake, don't pretend to be something else.

If you don't happen to be the most popular person..OH WELL. Have fun with your life and value your true friends.

Answer 4

It's not cool to be mean.

Being popular is having true Friends and knowing people that repsect you.

Popularity is so overrated...Be yourself

Great advice...wow your the one asking how to be popular

Answer 5

Well,I`m quite popular,and I`m new in high school.

Wanna know the secret?

The secret is that don`t say anything bad!

never ever ever!

and if u are not pretty,u will be!

Answer 6

Your problem isn't that you are not popular, your priorities are miss placed.  There is no formula to being popular.  The truth is you will probably never be popular.

You are focusing on your weaknesses, and there is good that can come of acknowledging your weaknesses, but you should never be fixated on it.  

Focus on what makes you happy, and what you like about yourself.  My philosophy, which i came up with when i was your age, is that I am the most important person in the world, because without me who would i be? This statement should be expected to be believed by others too.  

You are more important to yourself then you will ever be to other people and vise versa.  Always stand alone and be proud of yourself, because at the end of the day you are the only one around.

Answer 7

try: http://www.rugorgeous.com

Answer 8

No offense but you don't sound like the type of person anyone would want to be friends with, I wouldn't want to be friends with a mean, shy b*tch  

Answer 9

why would you want to be popular, but the popular girls at my school all wear name brand clothing american eagle, aeropostale, ect;  

Answer 10

I would get a boob job, some lipsuction and start dressing S****y.

Answer 11

join a team! [[like sports I mean]]

... this can help you make more friendss

and for being popular you just need to be yourself. . . not all girls who are popular are pretty either.

the most important thing is to be yourself and dont make fun of others. enjoy life; dont hate it !

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Answer 12

Why do you want to become popular for what your not rather than to just become popular while being yourself?? Just be yourself && Stop trying to be someone your not. It's obviously not working.

Answer 13

popularity;; its not somthing your just turn into. it takes time, looks and friends.  in 8th grade most cliques are already set. it sounds like your not a looser but your not popular. im in 8th grade to but im in the popular clique. the first way i got popular was in 6th grade. i made friends with one of the popular girls and she introduced me to the other popular people, i went to the mall with them a couple of times, we got closer and now im best friends with all of them. soo that can be your sulution to be popular. orrr turn pretty, usualy pretty people are popular. or be friends with people from other schools, popular people from other schools. maybe the popular people at your shcool will be like " oh shes pretty and is friends with our friends from other schools, maybe we should hang out with her" but i doubt that will happen. it isnt so great being popular though. as long as you have great friends and best friends, your fine :]

Answer 14

Be a *** hole Answer please

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