How can i come into contact

Question

Ok heres the thing. I have my mom & dad of course. I have one sister and one brother from her.I grew up with them.Not getting along to this day. but what ever. But im the only one from a different dad. They share the same dad. So after my mom divorced their dad my mom met my dad and had me.

My parents had me. But my dad has like 6 kids from like 4 different moms. Including my mom. I have never ever met my brotheres and sisters from my dads side of the family. I am only 15. But i just want to know if there is any way i can come into contact with my one sister i have from my dads side that he is always talking about. How smart she is & stuff like that. My "sister" and "brother" from my dads side live with him. he says he hardly ever comes in contact with his other kids because the moms dont want him to. Im my dads youngest child. All the others are like 20 and older. He says that they know about me. But just dont care aout meeting me in person. I had a quinceanera about 2 months ago.. of course my dad came.. but i asked my dad if he could bring my brother and sister. but he said that they didnt want to come. i said fine. what else could i say. It hasnt botherd me so much untill now. I just want to at least talk to my sister. I guess shes pretty big in the medical field.My dad says she graduated from some medical school top of her class blah blah blahhh...

He wants me to be just like her or better he says. but how can that happen if i dont even know her.

Answer 1

Tread lightly here. You could have been told lies all this time. It sounds to me like he doesn't want you to meet them and is keeping you from them. Why else wouldn't he just invite everyone over for a family dinner? You have a right to know your siblings, and I find it doubtful that they just don't want to meet you. Indifferent maybe, but outright no I don't want to meet her at all sounds a bit like a fib to me. It may not be, but....

Do you have any clue where they live or what their names are? You could do a search on http://www.pipl.com it will not only show contact information, but myspace, etc information as well.