How can i convince my husband to have another baby?

Question

becaus eour daughter is 4 years old and he doesnt want to have another baby but i do

Answer 1

You can't.  The number of children you both wanted should have been thoroughly discussed prior to marriage.  My husband always said one child - and that was it.  If you pull the "oopsie" I got pregnant by accident it will only backfire and cause him to resent you.  You both should sit down and have some serious discussion about this topic.  If he doesn't want anymore children or any "oopsies" than he should go get a vasectomy.  Mine did, we both survived it and our daughter is doing just fine as an only child...

Answer 2

are you sure you want to raise another little child in the world were living in? everything is getting so expensive and the society now a days is so rude and so selfish, I dunno.

Answer 3

Not a whole lot you can do sweety.  You can try talking to himand try to come to an agreement, but if he really doesn't want another kid, it's not right to make him or try to trick him.  Because if he finds out he may leave you, and quite frankly I wouldn't blame him.  But try talking to him and tell him how badly you want another one.  But don't do anything behind his back.  If worse comes to worse, you may have to decide what more important, your husband or having another child.

Answer 4

when you find out let me know!!!!!!LOL. same here

Answer 5

just make him horny or something :p

Answer 6

You should not have to convince him to want another child. That could end very badly. But if you reeeeally want another child and he doesn't, there's always the "secretly stop taking birth control" route. You could brush it off as an "accident" and he'll most likely come around to having another one once it's born and what not...or hope he does anyway.

Answer 7

Haha. Awww. I know this is bad.. but you might just have to oops..forget that you are ovulating or forgot to take your BC..and wam! get pregnant! lol.  Babies need a lot of attention and is a job itself...so your husband probably just keeps thinking about that. I am sure it's not just him not wanting another child.. its just everything that you have to do and everything being expensive..especially right now..i mean there is a lot to think about. A lot that comes with having another.  And since your first is already 4 and bigger..you will have to start ALL over again.  Maybe you should sit down and really talk to him about it. A serious convo. Just tell him this is what you really want.  Talking is always good...I am sure he will like to have another. I mean how can you not! Babies/kids are amazing :) Hard at times.. but more good :)