How can i convince my mom to let me move bac??

Question

we moved to a small farming town from a HUGE city about a year ago and i have hated it there for about 9 months. The first 3 months where great, then school started. thats when i found out that people HATED me here. i did make a few close friends but i still dontr fit in. NONE of my old friends talk to me and i have no idea how to ask my momma if i can go back and live with my best friend. i used to have TONS of friends and i was super popular( and i no that popularity isnt evrything) but now its the complete oppisite. i asked my best friend out and he said no because we live so far apart. Ever scince we moved my life has been torn apart. HELP PLZ!

Answer 1

im telling u this honestly there is no way to explain to ur mom or ask ur mom if u can go back i can only go back to my home town to visit so wen ever i do go i stay for a month or longer i even dropped outta school so i dont even go to school nemore all i can tell u is take her n2 ur room and tell her everything all the problems n school everything and then gradually ask her thats wat  hav to do wen i wanna visit but im fixen to move out soon shes  lettin me so it might b the same but mite not with ur age

Answer 2

Well I'm really sorry you have to go through this, honey. I'm currently making a lot of changes and can't wait for college either. You need to sit down with your mom and tell her everything you've told us, like how mean everyone is (BTW did you do anything that would upset them?) If you truly TRULY want to leave and it's so miserable that you start having . . . thoughts, your mom should understand and compromise a way so you can be happy. Twelve is a really hard time and kids are cruel at that age, so if it makes you feel any better people mature as they get older and let more people 'fit in'. I blink way beyond the average person and people used to avoid me because of it. But as the years went on people just got over it and I was one of the more popular people in school (Popular as in lots of friends not the other kind) So if things don't go your way and you have to stay I'm just saying they won't be like that forever

Answer 3

You should let your Mom know how much you're hurting from how the other's aren't accepting you.  Then go and see a doctor/counsellor and ask for some advice....because this is how depression starts.. .they'll help find you a meeting that's for new comer's .  Sorry about your luck!

Answer 4

Try to hang out and be busy with your family members until you start making some friends. It's very hard, I know but it's just a phase and if you talk to a nice girl in one of your classes, she'll be your friend. It's not that hard to make a friend.

Answer 5

All issues are huge when your world is as narrow as middle school or high school.  Rest assured, those little punks making snide comments are as narrow minded and uncultured as they come. That said:

Try and be considerate of your mom (and dad if you live with him too) and what she needs and wants. She meets your needs and wants the best that she possibly can, so permit her this. She is trying to do what is best for the family, and that sometimes means that she has to make hard decisions that for the immediate future are really inconvenient and just seems absolutely horrible for you. But trust me... 10 years from now none of this will matter.

Remember: No matter where you go or how old you are there will still be people like the kids you are going to school with now, who have the common sense and grace range of a goldfish. Dont be a coward and run from it. You are WAY too cool for that.

I had the same thing happen to me too. But guess what? By the next school year I was one of the most popular kids in school, and though I  chose not to date anyone very seriously, I dated some. Went on to college and was active with sports and made tons of friends. Met a guy at work who all those little snits who teased me, would have DIED to date... and I married him! We now have a daughter, and pets, and we are buying our first home! We are happy and successful in every way imaginable. You will be too hun.

Tough it out. You'll be all the stronger for it later. And who knows, maybe one day you'll be able to help someone else going through the same thing... but you can't do that if you run.

EDIT:

You know... maybe if you stopped thinking about yourself, and thought about your mom for a change, this wouldn't be such a big deal. Grow up a little. Why should she respect your wishes and give you the freedoms of a adult (like moving back) when you are clearly acting like a child.  You obviously still need to be under her guidance.

Answer 6

i am going to give you the same advice that you gave me sit your mom down and tell her how you feel my mom and i need to talk because i plan on moving back to the big city also where i was living.next time the kids make fun of you you need to stand up to them and be the bigger person because positivity feeds positivity just smile at them and say have a good day works wonders lol good luck  

Answer 7

It is so hard to move and make a new life!~( You don't say  how old you are. I hope this school year will be better for you. My suggestion is to make the best of it-finish school, get GREAT grades and go to college where you want and then you can live where you want.