My husband has a close female friend and the two have known each other for atleast 8 yrs now. She's married and the guy is also a good friend now. I know my husband and trust him in every way.....
Its just that this girl cannot keep out.... although she stays in a different city, she calls my hubby atleast twice a week.... my husband is equally friends with her husband.
My hubby has positively encouraged including me in this 'trio' as well.....many times.
But i just dont like this girl......cant stand her and her closeness to my hubby. Ok they were good friends but shouldnt she call him lesser now that she's married? Height of things: her husband doesnt seem to object to this 'friendship'.
I've discussed this and fought many times with my hubby..... he says they're just good old friends and that i am worrying unnecesarily.....he thinks my thoughts are ridiculous n that i am overly possessive about him..... its partly true.... i dont seem to appreciate many female friends of my hubby, this one in particular.
Ironically, my hubby never seems to have any problems with my guy friends....(atleast he doesnt show that he does)
This girl has also tried to befriend me many times but i cant seem to accept her.....
Please tell me : is this only in my mind? Am i overreacting and imagining things??
How do i handle this insecurity? I want myself to enjoy each moment with my hubby (whether its with this friend or other good friends) coz i love him so much! Although we've been married for just an year, it kills to think that this girl has known my hubby more than me.....
This is harming me....but shudnt harm our marriage in any way......
I just want to reach a happy and amicable solution....
Please help!!!!!
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