How can i earn my moms trust back?

Question

so i had a sleepover with my friend & we snuck out. we put some bad pictures on myspace & my mom found out about it. i have definetally learned my lesson & will NEVER do it again. so please no lectures. but my mom doesnt believe me. she never lets me hang out with my friend anymore & she made me delete my myspace & im not allowed to have sleepovers. but how can i earn her trust back so she lets me have freedom again.?

Answer 1

As you say trust has to be earned, which means it takes time, it isnt going to happen instantly. All you can do is go along with the new rules, listen to your mother, and behave.

She isnt doing this just to punish you, she is worried about the slippery slope you put yourself on.  And the bad influence your friend is on you.  She wants the best for you.

RESPECT yourself ! I am going to "lecture". WHY would you disrespect yourself by even having "bad" photos taken never mind publishing them on the internet?  Dont you believe you are worth more than this!   If you dont respect yourself no one else will.

If you dont love yourself no one else will.  People DO judge a book by the cover and you have created a pretty S****y bad one for yourself. Is THAT what you want people to believe you are? Someone special? Or just another dumb s**t on the internet?

Sorry for being harsh, but the women of my generation worked SO hard for women to be seen as capable, equal in the workplace and in the courts and more than empty headed mindless s*x objects.  

I feel as if our daughters are not only losing everything we worked for, they are just throwing it away because of the media portrayal of young women these days !

Answer 2

Well being a mom of older boys, I just bet after awhile she will forgive you. Just behave it will work out. My youngest use to sneek out ect. I forgave him after awhile. See it's like this mom's NEVER stop loving or forgiving their childern. It just takes time. mom;s look at it like they have failed in a way what they seem to forget they were young once too. GOOD LUCK

Answer 3

be good

Answer 4

Its going to take time, lots and lots of time.  You just have to show her that you are trustworthy by doing your homework, making good grades, etc.  Eventually she will see that you have truly learned your lesson.  You might also talk with her about what you did and why you did it.  Yeah it was a bad idea, but if you mom understands more about you and your reasons, she won't agree with them of course, but she will see where you are coming from.

Answer 5

Be obedient and loving and know that this was a very good life lesson for you. This is probably part of your punishment for your bad deeds.  Just take your punishment like a trooper.  Glad you learned your lesson so quickly.

Answer 6

Well, once you do something like that, it's kind of hard to gain that trust back. Do what she says and no more sleepovers.  

Answer 7

just do what you have to do and it will gradually go back to normal

Answer 8

do something Very good. To your mom make her a cake.

Answer 9

I suggest you do chores without being asked and spending less time with friends instead and you help her!

Answer 10

Sit down with your Mum, and tell her that you really have learnt your lesson. Let her see that you really are sorry for what happened. This probably won't heal right away, but you have to gradually build up the trust again. Try doing th chores, doing what you're told, not telling even the teenies lie. I hope it works!