How can i explain to my parents that im pregnant?

Question

Please give any advice you can i am really scared to tell them

they still think that i am a virgin

I feel really bad cause i know they are going to be very disappointed in me...well please help me if you can

Answer 1

Tell them you want to sit down and talk with them. Tell them you have something very serious to say. They will support you when you need it most, and you need them to help you with this. Taking on a child is a big responsibilty, something your mother did and has raised you. Talk to them, they may be disappointed, but you can always be forgiven.

Best Wishes,

Seinna

Answer 2

Oh hon, my heart goes out to you. I don't know how old you are or how supportive your parents generally are. But I have two daughters and I know that I would want to know as soon as possible. It would give me more time to get used to the idea. When you tell them it might help if you explain that you understand how they must feel and that you know it is going to be hard but you plan to be a very good mother and continue your education. Also understand that whoever the father is, he must be held financially responsible. You will have to go to court and get an order for child support. And you will have to be civil and respectful to him as your child's father whether you want to or not. Welcome to the world of adulthood. Good luck.

Answer 3

The easiest thing to do is just to tell them straight out.  Don't beat around the bush, because it only makes things harder.  Tell it to their faces.  

Answer 4

how old are you?

Answer 5

Apparently you are a young one! Well the only thing that is gonna help you is "honesty" And the way to do it is sit them down and tell them how things went. If you hide it sooner or later its gonna come out and it will bit your tushy. They wont be happy but hey you will feel alot better when you bring the truth out and don't try and do anything stupid with your kid. Please if you don't want it tell your parents or give it for adoption but don't kill it

Answer 6

get a christmas card that says ho ho ho on it. in front of that put " ive been a " . then at the bottom say, btw, im pregnant. will work like a charm

Answer 7

Mom, i was at this party, and a group of homless men approcached me with the offer to run train on me, so i took it, and had hours of s*x with these homelss men, now im pregnant....

then tell her you are kidding, and tell the truth, and say, see, things could be much worse

Answer 8

I think you will have to tell them at some point, maybe just sit down and talk to one of them, even if they are dissapointed they will still help you.

Answer 9

I too was in your situation. Trust me you are their baby girl no matter what! They will get over it once your little one is here and they are grandparents. Everyones heart melts when it comes to a new face in the world. Sit them down and tell them that it was a choice you made and that you are prepared to face the consequences of your actions. Let them know that there is government help. Such offices like WIC- women, infant and children. They will help with formula, food if your nursing and so on. Do some more research about what comes with having a baby before you tell them so they know that you know alot about the situation and that you are willing to learn what comes with the territory.

Nothing is more precious than the sight of your new baby! You will never feel another feeling quite like the one you'll feel when your little one is here!

Congrats!!

Answer 10

wow, how old are you? N just tell them....write a letter

Answer 11

Personally i would tell my mum first over my dad just because i think my mum would be more understanding and plus mothers have been there in that position even if you are younger than they were when they got pregnant. Im sure they will understand. Maybe you should sit down and have a conversation with your mum and just start casualy talking then bring up the pregnancy thing.

Good luck.

Answer 12

just tell. ASAP! Yes they will be disappointed but you need them right now to help make the right decisions for you and your baby. If you're to scared to tell them by yourself get a counselor or someone to sit with you that won't get in the way but will help keep everyone somewhat calm.

Answer 13

honestly you need to sit them down and tell them straight up. if you have someone older than you that your closer too have them there with you it will make it easier

hope it helps

Answer 14

Tell your parents hun... They are gonna find out sooner or later (if you know what I mean. ) People make a lot of mistakes in life, its up to the individual to learn from them.    

Answer 15

Anyone I've ever known who has gotten pregnant at an early age told their parents and they were upset. The thing though, is that parents will want to yell, and criticize, but after the baby is born, they ALWAYS come around, because they see how cute the baby is, and who wouldn't want to have that in their lives? When you tell them, just listen to what they have to say, but explain to them that you have a plan worked out. (Wait, you do have one, right. I hope so for the sake of the child). If you do, this will show them that you might be ready to have a baby, and for them to not be so scared. You might also tell them, that they couldn't be more scared than you, so they need to just support you.