How can i feel comfortable with my sexuality??

Question

Cuz sometimes I feel this discomfort in me when I'm with a bunch of dudes....but when I'm around females....I feel comfortable and I feel good to be around them. My brother said it might because I'm homophobic....i don't know....

Answer 1

i want to hang with you. i hate being around men who tend to "hang" only with men!

Answer 2

you could be g*y?

but you said you feel "comfortable" with women so are you interested in women?

its normal to feel discomfort in your own sexuality I'm a girl and I'm straight I like guys, Iike to hang around them play sports rather than with my friends who are girls because I feel I don't know what to talk to them about. Or that'll I'll just look like a big r****d in front of them (that doesn't mean I'm a L*****n) it just means I get along with men better than women.

Homophobia  is an irrational fear of, aversion to, or discrimination against homosexuals.

you may or maynot be homophobic really I can't tell you thta for sure.

Answer 3

or maybe you're g*y.

Answer 4

Why are you asking this in the mental health section? Homosexuality is not a mental illness.

Answer 5

Its your ego, you don't feel like you measure up to yer homies (or other dudes) with the ladies theres no fear or insecurity at all cuz they're like not dudes dude!

Answer 6

maybe a therapist can help you

Answer 7

You need to relax, that's all.  Just think of it all as a joke

Answer 8

your bro might be right and there is nothing wrong with that alot of guys are

Answer 9

Sounds like you're a tad bit insecure about something when you are around guys. Only you would  know what that is. When around women, its not that much a challenge.

Answer 10

You could be feeling discomfort around your guy friends because perhaps they aren't being good friends to you or are making the wrong decisions in life.

Or, it could simply be that you get along better with girl's. Theres nothing wrong with that.

Being g*y, there is nothing wrong with that either. If you have an attraction to a guy, who's gonna stop you?

Answer 11

It may be.

You may be afraid to be around guys because of repressed attraction for them.