How can i flirt with this guy in my P.E. class?

Question

i'm a sophomore in high school and there's a guy in my P.E. class that introduced himself to me on the first day (last monday) and we've been talking ever since. i think i'm starting to have a little crush on him :) he's outgoing and confident, whereas i can be shy at times--though i'm starting to get over it. we smiled at each other a lot last class and he makes me laugh. :] how can i be more flirtatious with him?? what should i talk to him about? how can i make him interested?

Answer 1

Sounds like he likes you... THREE WORDS: BE YOUR SELF!

Answer 2

Ok the good news is that he has to do the hard work - you just have to give him the signals that you're interested. But do remember not to be too much of a pushover or he probably won't really stick around for that long.

So here we go, some useful little tips:

Catch his eye, look away, then look back again - if he doesn't notice that he's stupid.

When you talk to him, laugh at his jokes. If you already like him you probably already do this.

Play with your hair when you talk to him. It's one of the things women do naturally to give off signals anyway.

Occaisonnally give him a little touch - I'm not talking anything too intimate, but a very rare little brush of your fingers against his (TRY to make this look innocent), or just brushing your hand against the small of his back can be very s**y - it implies possession and it's an invasion of their personal space. It's quite a safe little flirt tool as it is a good way to test the water without making yourself look stupid.

For flirtation, remember it's all really part of a big game. Men love to be teased - give a little but take it away again. It's good to build our confidence up, but NOT too much. Obviously, don't look to shatter someone's ego by commenting on their appearence, but do make innocent fun of them. Again, the idea here is to let them know you are interested, but that you are nobody's fool - the last thing you need is to be seen as 'easy'.

Oh and good luck...