How can i get emotional support?

Question

i am 33yrs young lady,having an8 yr old kid.my husband is having an extra marital affair with my younger sister.ours is a love marriage but this thing has distroied my faith in marriage system...i cant take divorce bcoz my kid is very much attached with her father i.e my husband and i also love her a lot...our kid is the only link between us which is binding us...i m very sensitive person and have suffered a lot emotionally...i m into great depression and seeking some emotional warmth may it be an emotional affair to servive....what i do?plss help me...me and my husband are still staying togather but have no concern with each other's life...i cant live without emotional support....

Answer 1

Staying for your daughter is the WORST thing you can do. She will know you are unhappy and will grow up to think it is acceptable to be cheated on.  You should kick both your hubby and your sister out of your life because they are ruining your daughters life.  

Answer 2

Not only is he not meeting any of your needs but worse than that, being with him is preventing you from finding other things and people who could meet your needs.

You are in a terrible situation - no wonder you are depressed. You are being hurt and betrayed by 2 people who are supposed to be your family, care about you, love you. You need to love yourself enough to pursue what is best for you. And what is best for you is best for your daughter. She needs you to set the example of self-respect, joy, strength, happiness.

Get some support through counseling and make some decisions for your life. You will come through this step by step but the first step will be to decide that you are worthy of much better, you deserve happiness and fulfillment.