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How can i get help to change my attitude?

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hi my name is danielle the problem is i have an attitude problem and i want to change it last night both of my friends came to sleep over at my house and we got into a huge fight about how i yell at them and how i dont want to hang out with them anymore but right i have one friend her name is vanessa and i told her how i felt about her avoiding me lately and i told her how i felt but she told well wat do u want me to do i need to be there for my family and i told her im not trying to make her not hang out with her family and she thinks i have an attitude which i do agree that i do get angry and i just want to fix but not just for me for my friends and i thinked i acted this way becuz im a junior in high school and they are both seniors and they are graduating next year and the problem is i dont think i will ever see them again becuz they are going college gonna get a job and i dont want my friendship to be over becuz how the way i act but i do think i need help fixing it then not trying to take it out on them becuz i really love them to death

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  1. Hi Danielle, I think you need to sit down and talk to your friends and tell them exactly how you feel. Tell them that you love them to death, but you have been thinking alot about that they soon will no longer be in school with you and will be leaving for college and that you are afraid to lose their friendship. Be honest with them, tell them that is why you have been feeling some anger lately and you really do not mean to take it out on them. Apologize and tell them the truth. Ask them if they will please stay in contact wit you while they do go away to college thru email, letters, phone.......and that you value their friendship and will miss them terribly when they are gone...I am sure that they will understand, and may very well be afraid of missing you as well........Good luck love......(((((HUGS))))...Linda


  2. I think you should tell them exactly how you feel. Tell them that you think you're gonna drift apart cos of the whole senior thing. If there good friends though, they should stick by you and if you are a good friend you'll stick by them. Friendship is a great thing but you have to make sure that you don't take it for granted.  You and your friends are gonna be okay, but if I were you I would ring em up, like now and just say "Hey, do we have time to talk?" and tell them everything you want to get off your chest.

    Good luck hun.  

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