How can i get my 3 best friends back!?

Question

ok so me and my 3 best friends were having a sleep over. and they were hitting/poking/slapping/&& messing with me at 6am! and i told them to stop/leave me alone/ & i even left the room to sleep on the couch. but they followed me to the couch & did the same thing. apparently i was being a party pooper because I wouldn't stay up with them ALL NIGHT LONG. and i was already tired because i didnt get much sleep from the night before.... so i was super tired and they were really pissing me off so i punched haley and sami. i didnt hit alicen because she ran off... so they were all mad at me and i ended up going home and we all didnt talk. i waited 3 days before i talked to them but they wouldnt talk to me. so then i waited a couple more days and when they finally talked to me they all said that they CANT TRUST ME. but ive already said that I wouldn't do it again. and that i was sorry. and wrong for hitting them. but i also said that NONE of it would of happend if they wuld of gave me my space and let me sleep! and i keep trying to talk to them about it to straighten all of this stuff out. and im just so ready to move on from this and for us to all be friends again.. because seriousely what much more can i do! get a time machine and go back to the past! no! but now they all arent talkign to me.and it has been 2 weeks now since off of this happend. i feel like they are just being BIG BABYS about the WHOLE thing and just need to get over themselves. look school starts in 2 days and i dont wanna have my 3 bffs pissed at me when im just starting highschool so how do i gert my friends back!!!): HELPPP

Answer 1

you need to talk to them about it and ask them what they would feel like if what they did to you was happening to them. also remind them of all the good times you all have had and if its really worth throwing away from just a little fight.

good luck, i hope you stay friends

: )

Answer 2

You do realize that even if you sincerely apologized to your friends, it is up to them to accept it. Until then, prove just how valuable your friendship is.

Answer 3

I would've done the same so I wouldn't blame you.

They should understand that you needed your sleep.

Like ask them if they were in your position wouldn't they

be pissed too ?

Answer 4

Talk to them. Ask them how would they feel if they were in your place.

Answer 5

You are going to have to stop telling them they should have let you sleep because they don't see it that way.  They feel like you were in the wrong.  You will have to apologize even though you don't feel like you were in the wrong.  Tell them that you should have stayed up with them.  Tell them you were so tired that you weren't thinking and never would have hit them if you were in your right mind.

Your problem is that you apologize, but then say, "NONE of it would of happened if they would of gave me my space and let me sleep!"  It's like saying, "I'm sorry, except really I am not and it is all your fault!"  So bite your tongue and leave that out when you go back to them.

Answer 6

if they really are worth it and they just got upset about this one thing, then just say that you were wrong and that you are really sorry even if you don't feel that way just to get them back and you were half asleep anyway and didn't reallly think about what you were doing