How can i get my brother to quit looking?

Question

My brother is 10 and in that boob stage i am 14 and have bigger b***s than most people my age and i love wearing low shirts so how can i get him to quit looking down there it is like he stares and it is soo anoying so does anyone have any tips my mom and dad say he is just curious?

HELP!

Answer 1

Mom and dad's right. He is probably only just being curious.

If I were them, I'd be more concerned at why my 14 year old daughter likes wearing low cut tops to show off her b*****s to the whole world.

Do you have any idea what kind of things boys and even men will think about you for exposing so much skin so young? How many pedophiles could be out and about, seeing you? Watching you? How much danger you're putting yourself in because you're 14, and trying by the sounds of it to look "s**y"?

Need to cover up dear, then nobody, even brother, will be paying any mind to what chest you have. At least, wait until you're older, and have taken some kind of self defense classes before wearing too low tops.  

Answer 2

I agree with your mom and dad. He is only curious. Your brother is only 10, so he doesn't have those hormones raging yet. Frankly, he's curious because you weren't like you are now physically say 1 or 2 years ago.

You could have a talk with him and just tell him that you don't want him looking there.

Above all, spanxalo said it best. There's no need for you to wear low shirts at your age. You more than likely do it to feel good about yourself, feel pretty, and impress too. Trust me: if you're that far ahead of your peers, you'll be noticed by the guys regardless. If you dress like that all the time, that will start to give off impressions to others that are negative, even if you're not like that.

I realize that girls will dress like that, but to do it in excess at 14 is a little much. That's more of an older thing to do. If you wish to dress like that, then you can, but don't do it frequently for the sheer fact that people your age can be quite cruel. Besides, you might bring on unwanted attention from pedophiles as well.

Tell your brother what you think and be a little more conservative, and you should be good. Good luck!

Answer 3

i would say that when ur around him to wear a shirt that doesnt show cleavage so he doesnt have anything to look at. also tell him that the stage hes going threw is perfectly normal. but tell him u would really appreciate if he could stop looking at ur b***s. and tell him in a nice way too dont be mean about it beacuse puberty is a very rough time for kids. but yea try this and see if it helps.

Answer 4

call him a pervert and he'll stop lol

Answer 5

stop waring those shirts around him...and he hasn't hit the real stage at 13 and up.sorry to say it but he's going to be thinking of u when he's masturbating.yea it sound nasty.but it's the true.

Answer 6

Tell your parents that 'curiosity' is an explanation for his behavior, not a valid excuse to let it continue. Demand to know why supporting his 'curiosity' is more important to them than your feelings that you are being violated. Tell them they are teaching him its okay to treat women as objects rather than people when they don't stop him from looking. If that still doesn't work, you may have to punish him yourself - make it clear to your parents if they don't stop him, you will.  

Answer 7

you should be like yo bro i think we should have a talk about girls then freak him out by talking to him about it

Answer 8

You could tape big rubber spiders or something gory to your b***s and then ask him if he wants to have a look. End of story.

Answer 9

tell him to quite looking there.

hope i helped