How can i get over a guy ?

Question

I heard he liked me about a month ago,

but i heard that from a guy friend that he liked me

so i started liking him. When i asked about him

they said he was visiting family for a month.

i saw him yesterday with a group of friends and wasn't

exactly out going and didnt hung him or even look at him

but for a second and he did the same to me.

i send him a message on facebook and he hasn't answered

and im pretty sure hes been on.

ive never really gotten all invested in a guy or anything because i think

thats really stupidd

but now.. i feel like crapp.

and i know he doesn't like me, help ?

by the way im 13 and dont tell me im to young or something mmk ?

Answer 1

Try hard to shift your thoughts about him away, when you catch yourself thinking about him. It will take a while, so don't think this is an overnight fix. The mind and heart need time to heal, just as though you cut yourself on your arm. Think about how long it takes to heal those wounds. Emotional ones are just as long, if not longer, depending on how attached you were to him.

Give it time, focus harder on school now that it's starting up, avoid him if you can, and soon it will be a distant memory.

Good luck!

Answer 2

Get a new guy.Their is like a billion or so out their :)

Answer 3

apparently he wasn't the right guy for u so look for someone u r more interested in not just someone that like u.

Answer 4

My best advice to you would be to not make yourself get over him exactly, (it will drive you crazy!) Just now that guys are stupid at all ages, and especially in high school and middle school. They don't know what they are doing. Also, maybe you should try to be his friend, just be friends. You will see that you really like him still, or you may see that you don't now that you know him more. If you stay friends till you are older then at least you still may have a chance when you are older, or even within a few weeks after you started being friends, cause he might see that he likes you. But if nothing works out and you are still friends, at least you get to hang with him and be his friend, thats always good. Just try to not freak out about it, and know that he is NOT the only guy for you no matter what you think!!! I made that mistake and I got depressed. If he doesn't like you, he isn't worth your time. All I am saying is if he doesn't know you that well then maybe he will like you more if he gets to know you, and then you ask him out in person or something. But don't worry about "getting over him". I think that will only happen when you find someone else to replace the feeling because I think people need to like/love someone at all times. Thats just how it seems. So I would look for someone else to try to like, and just live life and let whatever happens with guys happen. Dont worry so much because you are really young and you have so much time. Sorry this is long haha. But you're problem isn't really that serious either, I couldnt get over a guy for 5 years LOL. But I hope this helps. =]

Answer 5

Just picture him with a beard, and say "OMG, I wish I was you."

Answer 6

Buy a d***o

Answer 7

Don't worry about it. You are just entering your teen years and i can guarantee you that this will happen again. You like him and he may or may not like you. Just talk to him about it and see what he says. Just keep in mind that the only reason you like him is that you heard that he likes you. You are extremely emotionally unstable right now in your life. You have real feelings and only a fool would say that what your feeling is fake. You will get over him all you need to do is stop thinking about him and start thinking about somebody else and voila you will be past him. By the way, chocolate ice cream and Little Miss Sunshine helped my sister through stuff like this so try a good movie and some ice cream as well. BUT DON'T GET FAT!!!!! lol

Answer 8

ahh sweetheart thats so sad. ive had the same thing happen to me.

honestly the best way ive gotten over someone is to fall for someone else.

so try not to think about him, and try not to be sad about him.

and keep your eyes open for other guys:)

good luck.

Answer 9

hi im 13 to =] if you just started liking this guy it can be pretty easy to stop. i just started liking this guy then my friend did to so i just stopped. but when ur in there its hard. like once there was this skater guy that i fell for & hard he asked me out then ended up cheating on me i was so heartbroken i just got over it after a few months i just started dating my best friend [btw hes a guy im not lez or bi lol] so you dont want him to break your heart so unless hes a good guy stop usially the qiuet ones are best there sweet they listen to you. if hes loud & obnoxious not good. btw i also relized love is for losers haha! just mabe if hes nice give him a chance =] & if you just want to get over him really just start saying to yourself forget him. & go find someother guy look for ones at stores you like guys to wear your sure to find one. for example i like emo style [not labling just like the style] so i go to hottopic not only for guy hunting though. lets say yo like A&F or hollister there are some hot guys there. just find a way to keep your mind of  him. do some flirting with other guys to.

hope i helpped.

Answer 10

Hey men like attention to. You did not hung him or even look at him is kinda mean. If you want a guys attention be nice. You have to force yourself to talk and make eye contact. He is only human if you don't act like you like him he wont think you will. Take a chance and be out going. Show him you are interested. Remember though you are only 13 and to young for s*x. That is not the type of interesting I was thinking of. Good luck

Answer 11

ehh its happended to meh 2

Answer 12

just distract yourself by hanging out with friends a lot.  try to be really outgoing and get to know more people at school.  you'll stop thinking about him really fast once you have other exciting new friends.

Answer 13

boys that age are dumb and are just going through puberty....

and so are you, so calm down.  

ignore it for awhile and see if he makes an effort on contacting you, if he doesnt.... try to move on please.