How can i get over him?

Question

Ok so here's my story... i have a 2yr old with this guy who i've known since high school. We're both 23 now. Mind you we've actually never been official or i was never given the title of being his girl but we have shared many moments together and been out to places... i guess you can say we were pretty much friends with benefit. But during all these years i actually fell in love with him we've both said to each other i love u and wat not. But here all the cons Many times he can be a HUGE a$$whole...he tends to bring me down a lot... he still likes to play games and yes we have talked about being together but he does not want to settle..i feel like he doesnt really care bout my son cuz he does not help much i had to file for child support...and i've finally realized that he aint worth my time and i need to get over him ASAP and move on but how the f can i do that when we have a son togehther??!? I need and want to get over him but how? plz give me advice!!

Answer 1

It is going to take some time, but you already gacve the first and most important step "You want to move on", leave the past behind focus on your son and focus on you. Look at everyday as new begining for you and your son.

I just lost a custody batlle for my 3 y/o and my ex is moving so I know how you feel, if you ever want to talk email me [e-mail]

Answer 2

find on great shaman, spell him some magic words. black magic really useful for you!!!

Answer 3

darling, firstly good job for accepting that you need to break up with him

most people would shun the idea

personally i think you cant control these things & its just going to take time

maybe meet more guys & maybe you'll find someone you like & will help you get over him

best of luck <3

Answer 4

There are many parents who have children but do not remain in relationships. If those people can do it then so can you. You've already filed for child support, which is a must, but secondly you should distance yourself from him. Try meeting new people. If you've been with him since high school than im sure you'll agree its time for a change. Try to think of the positive that will come from moving on for both you and your son. & when you start to get sad think of all the hurt you have felt as a result of this person.  

Answer 5

its a process that begins with kleenex. Then comes drunken nights, lots of time, and a new man. Busy youself, it'll go by quicker