How can i get over it? HEELLPP

Question

my girlfriend of two years has just broke up with me. she said that she loved me but she thinks i m cheating on her and she left. its totally not true! i truly love her. i dont know what to do. i miss her and want her back.

dont know what to do.. i m going crazy.

any advices on how to get her back?

Answer 1

I agree.  I once cheated on my ex boyfriend and kept accusing him of cheating on me.  It usually is a cop out.  But maybe she really feels you are cheating on her.  Try talking to her about it.  That would be the best thing, because you need to know whats really going on and tell her that you are honestly not cheating.  But do NOT fight with her.  That will just make everything worse.  Hope it works out.

Answer 2

maybe when she said she thinks you are cheating, its her cop out because she is cheating. People who make accusations usually are hiding something. Unless you have led her to believe that you are messing around.

Answer 3

It's the easiest thing in the world to come up with an excuse to break up with some one when you want to move on ,,,, It sounds like that's what's going on here ,,,,  Don't be so quick to get so wrapped up with just one person so early in your life ,,,,  You never know but what getting yourself tied down to one person too early just might cause you to miss meeting that Miss Right person ,,,,  Don't be in such a rush ,,,, Get out and circulate to find out who and what 's out there ,,,, The wider the range of acquaintances you have the bigger the selection to choose from when you are ready for a more involved relationship later on ,,,,

This girl pulled out of her relationship with you for a reason ,,,, It might not be the reason she gave you but that really isn't the issue here ,,,, If she felt about you the way she should she wouldn't be so ready to sever the ties that the two of you had earlier ,,,, The only thing you can do is tell her how it is and then it's up to her what happens ,,,, I wouldn't put my life on hold for her if I were you ,,,, There are all kinds of fish in the pond so to speak ,,,, Move on and find some one you can be comfortable with ,,,,  She might even come trouble and problem free ,,,, //

Answer 4

hey matt you seem like a good guy, and maybe she just has her eye on another Guy.

Give her some air,in time you will kknow exactly whats going on,and maybe its time to cut the ties and move ,on, it won't be easy, but if she see, that you have moved on, and she can't treat you like a puppet, she'll come too her senses. if not oh, well.

Answer 5

If she is willing to listen, TALK to her. If she does not have any fault (of ceating on you), she would listen to you and want to understand you.Tell her how sincere you have been and loving, and see how she reacts. If she really thinks you cheated on her, she would be rather devastated than unilaterally attacking you. I know the hard part of breakup, so really hope you will work things out.

Answer 6

I dont know if you can get her back. Once the trust is lost it will take a long time to earn her trust back. I know once I dont trust somebody I tend to lose interest rapidly:( Sorry I hope things get better for you.