How can i get over someone i never even had?

Question

my best friend (who is a guy) completely dumped me for his girlfriend.

(and i know that shes was his girlfriend and everything but i was one of his best friends)

and after they started going out i realized that i was completely in love with him.

now they're broken up but i still cant stop thinking about him.

i am also kind of mad at him for ditching me and im not even sure if he still likes me (as a friend) because he has only tried to contact me once or twice this summer.

i need to get over him. how can i?

Answer 1

go out wiht girlfriends and go meet some new guys =)

Answer 2

I am sorry about your problem! I have gone through a simular situation. It sucks. But what you need to do, is occupy your time. Go out with the girls! Meet some new guys! Its alot of fun. And trust me its worth it!

Answer 3

You need to call him! you need closure to know that everythings done with or not you need to call him and tell him how you feel I've been where you are. It's scary but worth it in the end

Answer 4

If you really love him..You should give it at least one last shot! Talk to him maybe who knows you could end up together.. if it doesn't work out then you get over him..BY staying away from him, going out with your friends etc.... maybe even start dating other guys..

Answer 5

time.  

Answer 6

Well first, make contact with him. If you guys were in fact really close, he should be happy to hear from you. Second, once you get a chance, tell him that you like him. It is better to get it out there and see what happens than to always wonder what would have happened.

I had a really close guy friend, we were inseprable for a year. Then I started dating someone else, and now (2 years later), that I completely broke his heart and I had no idea.

Good luck

Answer 7

this same thing happened to me. i was obsessed with this one guy forerver and i never got over him. but now i have a new boyfriend and i like him soo much. im over the other guy. so find a new one and focus on him

Answer 8

sounds like you where being the guys buddy and he finally gave up on you and kinda wrote you off as a tease. Thats probably why he only called you like twice, cause he know ur kind of a dead end. You should call him and let him know your wantin to get naked ( only if you really are )

Answer 9

Find another guy. I understand they are everywhere.