How can i get over this guy?

Question

we had this little silent fling thing last year, (weird, but I'll explain it) pretty much he used to check me out and look at me, and he used to walk into my supervised study and pretend to talk to his friend but he glanced over at me the whole time, and after school while waiting for the bus, sometimes hed walk over to where I hung out and just walk past me to get my attention. weve never talked but i know that something was going on between us. this year, he has his eye on some new girl (yes, he is a big player) and its really killing me that he doesn't even give me a second glance anymore. he also avoids me. when i see him he quickly walks away now. but i just cant stop thinking about it and thinking that im not good enough. also i used to takl about him a lot and i think someone told me my huge obsession with him so he thinks im a stalker/creeper. Everytime i see him, i get depressed. i just want him to be happy, but i cant get over him! help! Ive tried finding a new guy but when i see a guys face and then imagine his face, theres no comparison and i cant get myself to stop thinking about him.

Answer 1

You didn't actually have a relationship with this guy. Believe me, there is someone else who will actually talk to you and take you out. Wouldn't that be nicer? You are obsessed with this guy. You need to make up your mind and get over it. You really don't even know him so you are romanticizing this in your mind child. He isn't that great.

Answer 2

There was never anything there except lust, sorry hunny.  

Answer 3

I understand how you feel.  You just need to believe in yourself.  They say no one can love you until you love yourself and it is very true, especially when guys are involved.  

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Answer 4

trust me he wanted one thing, if he never talked to you he didn't want to anticipate a relationship. the best thing to do is put yourself out there and let someone come to you.

Answer 5

If this guy is inin someone else he obviously has no feelings that way you....meet some new friends, join a club, a new hobby, you have to love yourself girl, be sand know that you are a good person and that one day when it is meant to happen you will meet the right guy, meanwhile concentrate on YOU, do nice things for yourself, be grateful for what you do have in life, do something nce for someone else, it will all come back to you in a very positive light I am sure, just believe in you :)))

Answer 6

well, i dont mean to be rude. but the dude's just not worth it. to think about it he is a jerk. seriously just get over him. someday you'll find someone who would only think about you and love you very much. there are tons and tons of fish in the sea. getting over is hard. but what a breathaway would it be to cross that gap, huh?  

Answer 7

go out with some1 else even if u dont really like them it will take them off ur mind for the monet just idd that but now back with the girl haha

worked for the moment

Answer 8

i feel the same way hun!!

i had a huge crush on this really hot guy i met this summer, and we flirted a lot, but nothing ever happened. and he was also a big player, lots of girls like him and stuff...

u just have to stop seeing him i guess, and try to think that theres other guys out there,,,i know its reallyyyyyyy hard and i cant stop thinking about him either, and it just makes me sad cuz i compare other guys to him too...

only time can help you get over the crush...just try not having him be the focus of ur day/life..

good luck :]

Answer 9

Getting over someone is difficult, but fortunately there is a tried-and-true three-step method for doing it:

1. Keep busy! Hang out with friends. Join a club. Do some volunteer work. Watch a movie. Work. Get some exercise. Have some fun! Do whatever it takes to keep yourself occupied.

2. Avoid him! Don't look at him. Don't hang out where he hangs out. Don't write to him or talk to him or read anything he sends you. Cut him out of your life completely.

3. Do the above, and then just wait. It takes time. You will get over him. THEN you will be ready to find a new guy. Getting over the other guy must come first.

Good luck!

Answer 10

I'm not going to read all that.

Getting over someone takes time and a distraction.

Go find somebody new.  Seems like you are a kid.......... you'll meet lots of new people while growing up.

Really... you can't fall in love that fast.. takes time.  It's just your emotion/hormones.