How can i get rid of the smoking fetish?

Question

I'm avery anti smoking guy. I don't smoke and never will. I Hate cigarettes and their smell. I don't even like to be anywhere near smokers. I think smoking laws should be tightened further.

But i like seeing lovely ladies smoke in pictures and movies. I find they look really s**y. How can i rid myself of this fetish>

Answer 1

I don't think you can get rid of it. But I think it is hypocritical to have a smoking fetish and not smoke yourself. Start smoking, find yourself a nice smoker to date, and embrace your fetish!

Answer 2

Stop being a n**i.  If you don't smoke good for you.  

As to your question, try making out with a hottie that smokes, if you find that you can stand it, stop complaining.  If not, your cured.  Right?

Answer 3

That's really interesting because any extreme resistance to a personal issue or indulgence very often manifests itself into a sexual fetish. For example, most "submissive" partners in the S&M community are Type-A personalities that work hard all day and exercise their need to give up control through their S&M fetish. This also explains how SO many extremist anti-g*y activists have been eventually caught engaging in homosexual activities themselves (although I wouldn't call homosexuality a "fetish").

If your hatred for smoking is a reason for your fetish, you may not even be conscious of it. I would try hating cigarettes less. Don't try smoking or anything, that's not a good idea. But find positive things that you like about cigarettes outside of sexual attraction, and maybe the fetish will fade.

If it's only images that are turning you on, try being more conscious of the reality of the situation behind the camera. She's stinky, she's being watched by 5 ugly fat dudes holding scripts, and she's uncomfortable as h**l.

If none of that works, just enjoy it! I really don't see the harm.

Answer 4

Date a few ladies that are heavy smokers,

See if you still think they are s**y.

Answer 5

I have the same issue, and asked about it in a question. I do not want mine to become necessary for arousal as that would really ruin my life.

People there said that you should just keep it out of your masturbation and s*x.

Answer 6

Try dating one of us, you will soon find it unglamerous.

Answer 7

why do you want to get rid of something like that?

can you  afford to rid yourself to rid yourself of a source of (harmless) joy?