How can i get the message through

Question

for 3 months, i have been, under a lot of presure, from an ex, i told him in may, i did not wan,t to be with him any more, i have changed my phone number, changed my car, gone away to stay, with my brother, who lives 110, miles away, from where i live, for 6 weeks, and today i still got some flowers dilivered today, from this person, it is really doing my head in, blue

Answer 1

You'll have to tell him very clearly with no fancy language or attempts at saying it nicely that you do not want to be with him under any circumstances. If he tries saying that you're 'hiding' or 'scared' or that he knows you want him make it very clear that this it is all in his head and that you don't want to have to hurt his feelings but his intrusive actions have left you no choice but to spell it out for him. If he continues after this tell him you will take legal action i.e. a restraining order. If he doesn't listen to this threat and is still hounding you after a week do not hesitate to get that restraining order but bring evidence of his following you about and harrassment

Answer 2

keep on ignoring him until he gets the message and eventually moves on, oh to be desired, it's a hard life!

Answer 3

A spade to the face? Or buy a gun. A .45 auto should have enough stopping power to put him down.

Answer 4

get a restraining order.  

Answer 5

Ignore him and give him no reply.

Answer 6

please make a police report, then file for a restraining order... these things should not be ignored... my EX-husband almost kid napped me... it's a good thing my neighbor felt the need to get involved... who knows what would have happen to me...

Answer 7

Get your Solicitor to send him a letter tellinng him not to contact you by any means whatsoever in the future & that if he does so then you will be forced into taking formal Legal Action against him !

Answer 8

I second that