How can i get this rude spoiled young star to respect me without losing my job?

Question

i currently am working as a fashion designer for a tv show that will go un named.

whenever i am picking out the outfits for one of the stars she always critiscizes me. i have been in the fashion industry for years, and she is 10 years younger than me

how can i get her to listen to me and respect me without losing my job.

Answer 1

The funny thing is she may feel intimidated by your presence, some children or stars have to feed their ego in order to feel important if youv'e never stood up to her it may not be a good idea that you talk to her about this . the most respectful thing to do for yourself and her is to ask her whats her issue / how she'd rather have you do things as supposed to the way you do them, another option would be talk to the person that use to work for her and find out how to eal with her or how things could have worked for them.

Answer 2

I seriously doubt you are Tricia Bercsi or Kristin Dangl (the costume supervisor and costume designer).

You mentioned the show in another topic so it's not hard to check.

Stop spamming the boards and spreading lies.

Answer 3

She is eccentric.. if she got away with that attitude before.. then all you can try to talk to her in an assertive way.. and try to make compromises with her.. but tell her that she has to change her attitude toward you.. tell her you don't care if she is a minor film diva.. she still needs to talk to you with respect.. if she wants to be treated with respect by you..  try to get that message across to her in an inoffensive and polite way. but let her know that her ''antics '' don't work.. she has to learn to make compromises... or at least discuss suggestions and be willing to listen... x*x

Answer 4

I don't think you can. Ask her what she would prefer to wear in someone else's hearing-then give it to her no matter how innappropriate. You have a witness that it was HER choice, not yours.

Answer 5

if i were you i wouldnt be rude. i would respect her because im a firm believer in you have to give respect to get it.

i would try and be stern and mature. maybe talk to her an tell her, "you know i understand that you have the right to your own opinoin, but honestly ive been in the indistry for 10 plus years, i am confident in my decisions and outfits. if you have a problem with the things im picking out thats your own problem but i really dont appreciate you being rude to me."

somethin  like that

Answer 6

I would simply remind her that your their to assist her and if she has a preference that is in line with what you have been told is proper attire for her you are willing to comply. I would further state I expect to be respected as I give it.