How can i get this to work?

Question

ok,i'm 13 and he is 13 too.there is this guy(my friend's cousin)who i like and i know he likes me because ppl keep saying we make a good couple and they ask him does he like me and we both smile,blush,and ignore the questions.we like each other but there's this one HUGE problem. his mom ,sister and grandma dnt like me and brace yourself why:they think that me and him are trying to have s*x yes i said s*x.they said they we try to touch each other and i might come up with a baby and that he needs to stay away from me(he doesn't listen though).i overheard one convo but my friend(his cousin) told me what they said on another date.he isn't exactll what i would call the faithful type and we are going to diffrent schools.i need to know if i should date him,leave him alone,or talk to him(if so what should i say).and we both might be a little scared to actuall admit that we like each other.please help me! 0-:

Answer 1

go on with the flow...

Answer 2

well...if he isn't the faithful type then you need to LEAVE HIM ALONE! because how do u know that he won't cheat on you, I mean you two do go to different schools... but hey go for it

Answer 3

Would you crash these kinds of walls for all your potential friends? If it were a girl who wanted to be a friend, would you have written about how to get this to work?

People believe your feelings are strong for this guy. That scares people who want to protect him. That scares people who would protect you. There are some good reasons for that fear.

How did an unfaithful person, a person going to another school with a hateful mother, sister and grandma, get to be important to you after such a short time?

Liking each other is never a problem. Something about this guy (or his family) is so out of control that his mother, sister and grandma over-react to a girl talking to him. That part of this friendship isn't going away. That's just part of the price of it. You probably have stand the accusations of a crazy family.

Now to the more uncomfortable part. People who are drowning hold tight to the first person that comes near. Sometimes it hurts them both. This is probably a nice person. You have a nice personality.

But your determination to have this friendship could cause problems in his family that you don't care about. Care about where he has to live and what relationships will suffer if you get this to work. If this relationship is that important, be brave. Go to the mother, sister and grandma and ask them the same question you have here - how can I have this friendship so that it doesn't hurt this guy's family? They will tell you how to get this to work. If that isn't acceptable to you, don't hurt this guy's home just so you can have what you want in a friendship.

You are wonderful that you care. Be wonderful enough to care a little bit more about this guy's home life.

Answer 4

no more babies...Baby ... we've had enough seems like the BRADY Bunch lol...lol....lol...What FUN ... won't be no quiet times ...  I just climbed out of that cotton wood tree  too ... was walkin down that old dirt road ... past the field  that had just ben mowed.... I'll bet you'd wish I'd just left you alone .... instead I found that road home !!

Answer 5

well jjust talk more

Answer 6

Oh thats a tricky question. Well do you like him enough to go out with him knowing that he isnt really faithful and he goes to a different school? And if his mom sister and grandma think you guys are having s*x that should give you a clue about him. You are 13 and you shouldnt have to deal with all this drama for a boy who you wont see most of the time. If you really like him go for it though. But ask yourself one question if one of your other friends wanted to go out with a guy like that would you really want them to?