I was brought up without a dad and i do think that my moms been "over protective" with me and you know, shes brought me up but i think im too soft with everything i do, like im too nice, its like i dont know how to be a man, you know im 19 years old and i feel kinda stupid posting this to get answers from people i dont even know, but the truth is i dont know how to be a man, im more of a wuss.
But its because i havent been around "men" a lot, not it a g*y way, i've just been brought up by females my mom, sis and my sisters friends. I have no role model when it comes to being a man. Let me just say im not in ANY way g*y. So dont make jokes. My question is how can i become tougher on myself what can i do, i need to toughen up. Thats the word i was looking for, Feminine, im too feminine.
I need to be more ruthless or cold or something but i dont know how. A lot of people walk over me because im too nice, theres nice and theres too nice and im sick of it.
So how can i toughen up, be a man, i mean does a real man let people walk over him? no, but i dont know what they do because i havent had a dad. So what would they do? how can i be more of a man?
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