How can i handle my depression after my break up...?

Question

me and my ex broke up 4 months ago,reason for our break up was his ex girlfriend who is now back in his life. i could not bear this and we broke up.we were together since 1 and half year and we had great and lovely time.in start we were just good friends but after that lovers.we both are still working at same place. since our break up we didnt talked with eachother. he was not agreed for breakup but i did. after my breakup i tried to contact him but he didnt give any response which is realy very hurting.i personaly think that he is now happy with his ex girlfriend as he told me that he loves her alot. now his best friends continously telling me that he loves me alot and he was realy very serious about our relation. they told me that he is not happy and missed me alot. point for my depression is,i still love him alot and want him back ASAP but he is giving me mixed signals...as we dont talk and used to ignore when we see eachother...but whenever i passees by him or his friends,he sends signals that he still likes me and he notice everything related to me...he gives me smiles and stare at me alot...yesterday i texted him but he didnt reply...am getting badly depressed now...i still love him and his friends saying that he loves me too then why he is behavig like this...why he is not trying to contact me? he loves me or not...?what should i do...?i cant forget him...?help me please...give me solutions....anyone have good idea for getting him...?

Answer 1

sorry.love sometimes often hurts. Thats life though and it sucks. Sometimes it hurts so bad the idea of going on living with out him is so hard! However it DOES..GET  BETTER. !!!!!  You gotta give it some time to heal. exactly half the time you were in a relationship w him is the time it will take you to get over him. did u say you two worked together? if so better think of getting outta  there and land a newjob. thats easiest. Get outta the house and go do stuff with other ppl!!!!  Stop listening to music you both shared and dont go to places you two thought were special. lastly..MEET A FEW NEW GUYS AND SLEEP W THEM THAT HELPS.(YES WEAR PROTECTION ) THAT SOOOOOOOOOO HELPS!!!!!

Answer 2

First of all, I know how painful it is but the reason he is not trying to response your calls is because he maybe trying to stay away from you. He already moved on his life and so are you. Go find another guy, I know there is a lot of cute guys there. If the problem is about a man, then the solution is a man.  

Answer 3

Tell him how you feel and that you know you made a mistake even if you don't think that you did tell him you want to be with him again and would do any thing for him ONLY IF YOU TRULY LOVE HIM