How can i have a 3some with my friend and my husband without chickening out?

Question

How can i have a 3some with my friend and my husband without chickening out?

Answer 1

ha ha. Omg you have so many problems I don't even kno where to start!! Basically ur letting ur husband have s*x ( cheat on you) while your watching. He wants to do this cus he thinks u aren't good enough for him. Tell ur husband no or leave him or something!

Answer 2

DO NOT DO IT!!!!!Every person that I know that has had a threesome it always ends badly.Your hubs pays more attention to her in bed,you get mad,they decide to hook up behind your back etc....if it is something that you really wanna do I suggest finding a random person that way there is less chance for problems,including being embarrassed.

Answer 3

First of all, you need to be legitimately interested in doing this or it is just not going to end well.

Secondly, when bringing it up or talking about it or preparing yourself for it, do it all very casually. It sounds a bit silly, but talk about it like you would talk about inviting that friend over for coffee and make yourself think of it like that. "It's not a big deal. It's something we do all the time." (Or something along those lines.)

Thirdly, as far as the actual event goes, just take a breath and relax. Things will happen naturally if you are truly comfortable with these people. And make sure you are communicating so that everyone knows what's going on and feels comfortable. The other two might be just as nervous as you and you're all jumping into this together.

Hope I helped. (And have fun!)

Answer 4

Not a good idea!!!!!

Answer 5

Where to start?

The fact that you're having second thoughts about this shows you are so not ready for this step. I read somewhere that something like 2 out of 3 threesomes end up in destroying the relationships involved.

I mean, it's an awesome fantasy but once it reaches reality the truth behind it is not so glitzy and s**y. You will constantly be reminded of your man with this other woman and you'll never be at peace again; unless you are a super confident woman with no issues whatsoever (which can be higly unlikely in this society) then don't please!

Take care

Answer 6

I don't think that's a good idea ,Ive seen many relationships end that way.This is something you have to ask yourself.

1) Will I look at him the same after?

2)What if he likes the other person more?

3)What if one of you has a fight before of after? (Jealousy)

4)Divorce or separation?

5)What if you like it and he doesn't?