How can i help my 24yr old get away from her x?

Question

my 24yr old and i were bestfriends until he got into her head

if she tries to leave he some how finds away to get back in her

head. like she will never see her kids again. oh yea he is

a sick 53yr old x cop. help...............

Answer 1

Creepy-- that reminds me of the cop that was in the news for killing his young wife (wives?).

There's probably not much to do... maybe find an article about the creepy cop who killed his wives and give it to her. I'd say a restraining order, but if he's an ex-cop he'll probably have a way around the system.

Also, if she doesn't want to get away... well, there's nothing you can do to help, unfortunately.

Answer 2

Unfortunately, you can't... Your daughter is letting him get to her, so, until she snaps out of it, there is nothing you can do. (You could move, and see if she'll go with you, FAR away. ?)

Answer 3

get her an good lawyer and make sure that she has an home for the kids to go to and just keep fighting, tell her that he doesnt have to control her. I know a lot of men are jerks, she can win if she is in the right.  If he keeps pushing court stuff he will end up paying her lawyer bills, and also he cant take the kids if she is not endagering them.  Also as grandmother you have rights to see the kids also.  Good luck you can win if you do things in the right way,

Answer 4

You don't.  A 24 year old is old enough to make her own decisions.  You just have to be there for her when things go wrong.  Women stay with abusive men (mental and physical) all the time, you just have to hope she wakes up before it is to late.

Answer 5

Is this the Peterson guy?? First off, she needs your support, you guys need to talk to a lawyer so you can get child visitation, custody, or whatever your daughter wants. He sounds like a jerk! So instead of her dealing with him, her lawyer can speak on her behalf. Best of luck!!!!!!!!!