How can i help my husband make his life better in jail??

Question

i visit him every week .i write him a lot, tell him that i love him and that i'm waiting for him to come home. what else could i d to make his life better in jail?

Answer 1

Give him food  

Answer 2

Send him a picture of you and your new boyfriend.  Anyone in jail is not worth waiting for.

Answer 3

What's he in jail for?

Answer 4

Wish him luck with his new 'husband' in prison and move on. Sorry.

Answer 5

good books,(dean koontz, stephen king, luanne rice, anne rice)

money for candy,

get a video recorder and record yourself 24-7 so when he comes back hes not even more a wreck

Answer 6

You can't make his life in jail any better, he should have stayed out of trouble.  Maybe next time he will learn not to do something wrong.  The only thing you can do is to just keep telling him how much you love him!!

Answer 7

Next conjugal visit bring him the max allowable in cigarettes. He can use them to keep his sphincter in tact.

Answer 8

Send him his care packages every 3 months, make sure he has money on his books  and try to sign up for weekend (conjugal visits).  Other then what you are already doing there is nothing more you can do other then keep his spirits up.

Answer 9

Ask him to talk to a mental health professional at the unit to help him with any anxiety or concerns he might have.

Answer 10

If you want his life better in jail have him break out. If you don't want to go there then there nothing you can do. Do what you already doing.  

Answer 11

bring some KY. It will make showers easier

Answer 12

Honestly, it's women like you that I just want to slap across the face and yell, WAKE UP AND SMELL THE COFFEE!  

Answer 13

Nothing.  He broke the law and is already getting much better treatment then he deserves.  You need to take care of yourself.

Answer 14

get him soap on a rope

Answer 15

i don't know bring him Taco bell or something i recommend crunch wrap supreme Well, let me be serious now. Make your husband feel good by making him forget what he has done although this may be hard because he is in jail. Tell him doing a crime and being in jail is better then doing a crime and being free because that guilt will never go away if you free. Tell him "you are paying for your sins" continue the sentence by saying "once you get out of jail you will feel better because you will know that you have payed for your mistakes"  

Good luck.  

Answer 16

conjugal visit

Answer 17

I can't imagine there's anything you could do or say to make life behind bars any better for him. Also tell him that when on the inside, a little bit of man-lovin is okay, that he's not really g*y unless he enjoy's it or he's the one doin it. If he finds the biggest baddest m**o in the joint and agrees to be the *****, he just may make it out alive.

Answer 18

Why are you concerned about a guy who would rather be in jail than to stay out of trouble so he can be with his wife?

You keep visiting him and let him know the first time he does something illegal when he gets out is when you and he are over.

Answer 19

many many conjucal visits

big bottle of lotion with porno magazine

cartons and cartons of cigarettes (that is like money in jail)

many many letters that you have written with special private pics and maybe a thong of bra

increase the number of visits.

get him good reading material, inspirational type books.

a calling card so he can call you as much as he can.

Answer 20

Maybe have him write life goals when he gets out and discuss things he wants to change to better himself?

Answer 21

Leave him and find yourself a real man!!

Answer 22

You can not make his life better, he has to try that on his own. If it was me I would rely heavily on my faith. That is the only thing that has gotten me this far. I am not in jail nor have I been but my husband has been. Maybe you should try making a god box so should your husband.  

A god box is when you take a old shoe box, cut a hole in the top put your needs and wants and suggestions that you have in it, now be reasonable when you do this. Pray over it every night and after about 60 days pull out that god box look over everything you placed in it, and see what god has blessed you with. you would be amazed on what god can and will do.

Answer 23

You must be so proud of your husband.

Instead of trying to make it better for him why dont you make him suffer? If he sees how bad it is, and how angry or hurt you are he might try harder to never end up back there again.  

Answer 24

Is he in jail for hurting you? I'm sorry I had to ask. I have a family member whose hubby is in jail (hes an alcoholic) For beating the c**p out of her in her house in front of their young daughter, and he doesnt work and she supports him, while hes been in and out of prison for assaulting her and the police.She and her kid go see him in jail every week, and she writes him all the time, and shes just not getting that he will only hurt her again once he gets out. But I'm assuming (and hoping) this is not the case in your situation, so just write him a lot of letters telling him u love him and send him some pics. and money when you can.