How can i improve my decisiveness?

Question

I need to be a better decision maker, especially when it comes to my emotional life. will Daniel Coleman's (Emotional intelligence) do the trick?

Answer 1

I'm not aware of the book you mentioned, But it couldn't  hurt. I am sure there are other books in the Library, that you can check out.

Usually, people who are indecisive, are over-thinking what is happening.

Try to narrow down your choices, and you will be a lot less confused.

If you have to, number them from one to ten, and only concentrate of the top two, say numbers nine and ten. That should at least help you decide.

Answer 2

Stop caring about what other people think. Start making decisions on what is right for you & what will make you happy.

When faced with a decision, ask yourself Am i doing this to please someone else or get them to like me or am I doing what is right for me.

Don't let anything get in your way. Know what you want & go for it.

Answer 3

books might work. but they don't have a heart.