How can i increases my confidence in front of girls?

Question

iam colleage student but iam not very handsome so when i speak 2 girls i have no self confidence

Answer 1

Be yourself and be happy with who yourself is. Draw a line down a piece of paper and write positive things about you on one side. Write one or two things on the other side that you don't like about yourself. Choose your most positive thing and practice that when you are around other people. Choose one of your negative points and work on reducing this thing in your life. Don't try to do to much at one time. Building confidence takes time. Confidence in yourself shows and is attractive to everyone, including girls. Good luck.

Answer 2

I'm sure you look just fine.

The best advice I can give you is to pretend to have confidence. When you get the response for that you will actually get real self esteem.

Answer 3

i agree, just be confident in yourself. if you really like a girl don't bother with what anyone else thinks about you talking to her because if she enjoys it that's all that matters. if she sees you're comfortable and confident in yourself (though not too much to be arrogant) then she too will be more at ease talking to you.

Answer 4

u must find out who u are first, then u will have confidence. make it look like your in control but yet make shure u  complitment her in a way that she more interested in what u have to offer.  

Answer 5

working too hard to impress girls won't help at all. i agree with the suggestions above, just be natural and think of something else when speaking with girls. think as if she's not standing in front of you (she doesn't exists). and confidence is the only thing that leads to success. but don't overact.

Answer 6

Just be yourself and girls will like you, dont put on an act or anything.

Answer 7

High self-esteem = Confidence.  Regard youself as being just as good as anybody else, if not better.  We all put our pants on one leg at a time...and nobody's good looks or money should make you feel any less important.  If you start believing that you have the right to talk to anyone and everyone, your confidence will grow. Don't be afraid of being turned down by a girl.  You may get turned down many times, but if at first you don't succeed, try and try again.  Be confident that you will succeed...maybe not the first time, but eventually.  That's all there is to it.