How can i keep my violent son away from my house my husban?

Question

my husband is on his side

Answer 1

to answer both of your questions - how much longer are you going to put up with being abused by the two men in your life? i'd say let them get on with it. you've done all you can for them & they obviously don't respect you, so show them your back as you walk through the door for the last time. not easy i know, but it's time to stop being their victim. good luck, hun. diane.

Answer 2

If husband won't back you, maybe you should go somewhere else for a bit and see what happens when they starve.

Answer 3

If your husband is on his side maybe you should take a closer look at your perspectives concerning your son.  Maybe the problem is yours on how you deal with him.  

Answer 4

Depends on the age your son is. If he's grown and you fear for your life, call the police. Otherwise there are programs specifically for children and adolescents for anger management.

And a husband should be siding with his wife. Shame on him.  

Answer 5

tell him towaake up smell the daisys and maybe get help

Answer 6

leave the country

isnt a very gud husband if he doesnt belive u but then agen he wudnt b a gud dad if he didnt believe his son sooooo hmmm

Answer 7

You have to file a restraining order... and tell you husband that since he is on your sons side to go live with him!

Answer 8

I don't know what the situation is between you and your son or whats causing the violence but i would never want my son to stay away from our house, he will ALWAYS be welcome. Try talking with your son to try and find out whats causing so much anger in him

Answer 9

If your husband and your son is against you in this...you might be in the wrong.

I'm not going to get 10 points, but its something to think about.

Answer 10

you should to talk with you son....

and tell him, that you have your life, and he have to respect it...

Answer 11

i dont understand? yy would you just want to do way with your own son? and ur husband is more important than your own son? ur flesh and blood? yy dont you try getting you son some help? like anger managmet? at a time like that all a child of any sort [old, young, violent,ect.] would want is to hear the soothing voice of their own mother helping them with there problems. if you just push him away, then HE WILL JUST BECOME MORE VIOLENT. atleast let him know that you care. dont neglect your own child lady. violent or not let him know that you care. maybe all he needs is you to become a better person. so please....so that we can all sleep at nite....so that u all can be at peace. help him bye seeking help and letting him know that your with him 1000% of the wayy...

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Answer 12

If both of them are against you, then the best thing to do is get away from them. If it means selling your house then do it. Move into a place that they can not go. Move out of state but violence is not worth trying to keep a house. The world is full of houses but there is only one you. Take care of that one you and move.

Answer 13

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Answer 14

restraining order is the only way.  

Answer 15

If its that bad you could always get a restraining order on him to stay away.

Answer 16

Well if your husband cant even stick up for you then get the police involved, it might be something you dont want to do but it sounds like you have no option. Keep a diary of everything he does and says so that the police have some idea of what he is like, but most of all dont put up with it, why is your husband sticking up for him? i know he is your son but surely if he is being violent then you'd think he'd back you up 100%, it sounds to me like your husband is probably scared of him and your son may see this and will manipulate him into taking his side. Tell your husband you want more support from him, tell him how its making you feel. Good luck