How can i live with this embarrassment and male inadequacy ?

Question

im seeing a dermatologist at the moment over this after the first dematologist was abrupt and dismissive..

the sexual health clinic couldnt find anything after doing tests........my doctor looked at it and did admit it looked ' unusual ' - but he didnt think it was ' abnormal '.........so he refered me to the dermatologist after i almost insisted..

the problem is the skin on the ' head ' of my p***s is all cracked, like littles tears in the skin covering the whole of my p***s head..

it doesnt hurt but is very sensitive, the dermatologist said she didnt think it was a skin disorder like lichen sclerosis...or dermatitis etc.....put she said i would have photographs taken....then she would send them away to another specialist in london to see what he reccommends to treat it..

she didnt know if the tears or cracks in the skin could be cleared but she said they might reduce in time if i use simple emoliants.

because of anxiety on the day i forgot to tell her a sweat alot down there and itch sometimes my s*****m, because it itches..

she also asked did i ever have any other skin complaints...i answered no on the day......but i forgot to tell her i have before had atheletes foot...

she has made a follow up appointment for when she gets the other doctors reccomendations about the pictures...in about two weeks.

my p***s in general is not the biggest, is only just about 6 inches when

erect...

and the head of my p***s is not a large shaped head but quite small and flat shaped..

most pictures ive ever seen or what i learned about male penises is that most are big...over 6 inches....and a lot of them have large , round, mushroomed shaped heads.

i dont....far from it and im already 30 years old........some guys younger than iam, 18 and so on have way bigger penises than mine..

plus because of the broken, cracked skin on the head part....i feel unusual and inadequate..

can anyone give re assurance or advice about this ?

Answer 1

there is no reason to worry about your size. you are fine. the skin thing, it sounds like you've diagnosed it yourself already so it just need the treatment and a possible change of lifestyle. If you are a victim of  the now outdated practice of circumcision, this is a frequent  result, so you'll just have to get into some routine p***s care.

be happy, enjoy it.

Answer 2

U did the right thing going to the doctor (very brave of u to do that!) and the doctors are looking at your case in detail so the best thing u can do for now is wait! Be patient and wait for your results to arrive from London. And just do wat the derm. told u to do.

And as far as this 'p***s size' is concerned, it really dusnt matter. Women admire the technique u use to make love rather than botherin how big ur thing is. (how else do u think lesbians work it?)

Answer 3

The skin there can get dry as the rest of your body. Forget the cheap petroleum moisturiser they give you for dry skin on prescription. Use Bio-Oil.

If you had dry cracked skin on the rest of your body you would put moisturiser on it, wouldn't you?

Don't click on that link above, it's a virus.

My best ever lover had a small one. If you're romantic and make her feel special, she would remember that a lot more than having a big one.

Stroke her legs slowly and work up so she's dying for it and then learn how to stimulate her clitoris. Don't dig your nails in or have rough skin as that would just annoy her. She'll be putty in your hands.

Most women hate men who think being a real man is just about p***s size. I can't believe men still think it's the most important thing.

Answer 4

size isn t everything have you been circumsized cos this can cause tearing etc keep your chin up its not the end of the worldxx

Answer 5

Dude.  You are worrying over more than you actually have to worry about.  DO worry about the cracked texture on the head.  I've  had it myself and it's easily sorted - you're dehydrated, so drink lots of water.  LOTS.  But seriously, your size is fine.  I'm the same - 6 inches.  You'll find most cuacasian guys are, most black guys are bigger and most asian guys are a bit smaller.  Yes, there are bigger guys, but there are A LOT of smaller guys, so chill. An average size p***s (which is what you and I have) does not stop you from getting s*x.  Believe me :)  

Answer 6

For the record, the average size p***s is NOT 6 inches.  It's actually 5 to 5.5".  So dude, chill, ur cool.  Get that thing treated, and be happy your p***s is bigger than most average guys.