How can i losse my shyness and become more social with other people?i want to make more friends?

Question

How can i losse my shyness and become more social with other people?i want to make more friends?

Answer 1

get involved in a sport or club that you would enjoy doing and you will find people that like the same things that you do..don't give up, keep trying!

Answer 2

join the club

Answer 3

I hope this does not sound mean, as it isn't intended to do that.  Shy people are ofttimes thinking far more of themselves than of others.  They also tend to think other people are focusing on them (and their perceived shortcomings) far more than is actually true.  

Think of this: you enter a room and see three people on the other side.  One glances at you, and they continue talking together.  A shy person often assumes these people are talking about him or her, when in truth they are so focused on their conversation that two of them didn't even see the shy person enter the room.

To make more friends, be a better friend.  Seek out those who need a friend.  Go talk to another shy person,  There are tons of us around.  If you truly discipline your mind to think more of others then of yourself, you will be seeking others who need a friend.  You'll get friends, too, by the way.  Put others first.  

Answer 4

Join a youth group at church and meet people.

Answer 5

joining a club or sport is a good way to make friends, but that's not for all people. what i think you should do is get out there and just be yourself. don't be too shy, you can just look at someone and tell if they are going to automatically say go away so try and pick out the people you know are going to be nice.

MOST people are not vicious, ha.

Answer 6

When you want to say something just say it and dont worry about what anyone else thinks.

Answer 7

Baby steps.  

First, make sure that you look your best.  Then go out and about with no other intention than just to make contact with people and smile!  Do it until it becomes easy or until it becomes a habit and you're no longer aware that you are doing it.

When you have mastered smiling at a stranger, go to the next step.  After you smile and if you are in a receptive situation, say something.  It should be simple, "I like your hoodie."  "Those boots are cute!"  "Hi!"

Keep it simple.  The more strangers you can interact with, the easier it will be to have a real dialog with someone without feeling shy.

Always remember that you have nothing to lose and everything to gain. This could be the beginning of a lifelong friendship with someone.  People actually like it when someone makes an attempt at acknowledging them as a person.  

Hold your head up, walk tall and you will appear confident and in charge!  

Good luck