How can i make friends at school?

Question

ok last year i moved to a new school and had no friends and just this year i hear that im moving again i have to go to a new school im fat i used to be pretty popular and hang out with lots of friends but ever since i moved the second time life sucks i used to get invited everywhere but now when im catching the bus home i see tons of kids going downtown to hang out and stuff but they never invite me they just act like i dont exist unless there messing with me most kids are cool with me there not mean or anything but i dont feel like there my real friends and i have nowhere to sit at lunch what should i do school starts in a week

Answer 1

Be yourself without changing who you are.  Be outgoing, approachable, and funny.  Everyone can appreciate a good sense of humor.  Don't get upset when people don't want to be your friend, because they probably wouldn't have been a "real friend" anyways.  Start exercising, not for others, but for you.

Answer 2

how to make friends easy act popular and they will want to be your Friend or ask them  

Answer 3

hi..,

be cool

talk to every one  who ever they are if they ask you just say some thing atleast -"i don't know"-

Answer 4

Get involved.  There are loads of activities if you look for them.  If you're not athletic, try out for Speech, Drama, Newspaper, Yearbook, Student Council, etc etc. You'll meet loads of people.  Some of those suggestions sound "geeky" but you learn more than you think you do and in the end, you benefit from those organizations.

Try starting your own organization.  Most schools will let you if its something allowable, has enough members, involves something academic, and you can find a teacher for an advisor.  Do you like to read?  Start a book club.  Do you like to discuss world issues? Start a Current Events club.  Start a volunteer based club and go clean up trash in the park.   You'll find peers who have the same interests and you'll find friends among them.

Try going downtown after those kids.  Maybe they don't see you down there and figure you don't want to go.  Go on your own, wander around, smile and wave at people.  Eventually they'll think "hey, she's cool" and ask you to join them.

Answer 5

This is not at all a serious problem .Instead of they coming to you

you go near them .Share some jokes.Give them cakes or chocolates.

Get busy and be involved.Take some of them to a movie or a

icecream parlour.Do group study.Change your mind to a

positive idealogy.Think positive and act positively.Never think negatively. Hope things would be fine within a couple of weeks.