How can i make it not so awkward between us?

Question

Me and my ex say hi to each other when ever we see each other, but i really want to start talking to him again. i don't know what to say though. he dumped me (he's a senior, i'm a sophomore) in the summer because he didn't see me enough. now we see each other a lot with show choir,but i dunno what to say or if i should talk to him. he seems ok with me, but sort of distant like he's afraid of me. then again he deleted some of my facebook wall posts and i still don't know why.

Answer 1

hey i kinda have the same problem. but my ex was the same age as me. im confused about what to do to.

Answer 2

everything happens for a reason. he probably isn't completely over you yet. if u want to still be friends than jus go talk to him. and if it seems like somethings wrong then ask him. if he duznt want to be friends with you then let it be dont push him.

Answer 3

use an icebreaker.

Answer 4

When you next see him make some funny comment about the conductor, or the fact you're nervous about the next concert, or something similar. Hopefully he will laugh and you can have a conversation. Keep it light and not serious, remind him how amazing you are :-)

If he acts like he doesn't care about what you're saying it doesn't mean he wants it to stay awkward, it just means he doesnt think the comments that funny. Try again, but dont message him online, its just too fake. Keep tryin but if hes doing the whole, i dont care, youre my ex thing, give up, youre worth more than him!