How can i make my boyfriend feel more appreciated?

Question

Recently me and my boyfriend are a bit strapped for cash. He's feeling down in the dumps because of these money issues and i'm starting to feel guilty as i do earn more than him and i know he thinks i just waste it when he's the one who needs it.

I think my boyfriend is feeling a bit under-appreciated at the moment and i really want to cheer him up and show him he's wanted and not taken for granted.

What can i do to achieve this? Any tips and ideas would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks. :)

Answer 1

i'd dote on him for a while. hug him, kiss him, hold his hand. make him feel important to you. that may help...

goodluck!

Answer 2

Sound like he takes you for granted and you're the under-appreciated one!

Tell him to re-train and get a better paid job if it bothers him that much.

Answer 3

I suggest you could buy him a card, saying something like Thank you, Or uno one of them types lol... and write exactly how you feel. If u dont want to ruin the card slip a note inside. www.personalisedmetoyou.com lets you write the whole card, whats on the front and the inside.

Also you could Sit him down and tell him, u appreciate him so much, and u understand how he is feeling.....

You could buy something that you both need, maybe something for the house/car/tv I dont know lol but something thats needed... And he won't feel you have wasted it.

Plan a special night in, with candles, etc.

You could buy him something You know he likes... and will make him smile....Make sure whatever you do he thinks its not wasted! lol

Overall though, I Think the best way is either write or tell him yourself, with a little gift maybe a ring/bracelt/neclace even with ur names engraved, and let him know your always going to be there, and its just a tempory (soz 4 spellin!) hard time your going through. Its neither of your fault, and im sure you'll be fine :)

Good luck & I hope I helped. Remember not to feel guilty though as you do earn the money, its not just given to you.

Answer 4

Babe i do appreciate you now how about getting yourself a job lol.

Answer 5

U cud help him try to find a better job or smehw perhaps help him pay sme off with the money u earn...

In general b ther for him, however a true man wudnt ever b feelin down bcuz his girl earns more than him... n u shudnt feel guilty Im sure u workd hard for wherver u r n however much u earn!

Answer 6

maybe buy him a meaningfull present or just give him lots of hugs and kisses which come free

Answer 7

i know a nice gift a trophy.the worlds best boyfriend on it.show him he won dat trophy for making u feel how a lady shud feel.give it to him wid a card full of your words in it.starting wid i love u becus u r cute. i love u cus u smile at me all the time.cus u tickle my feet.etc dat kinda thing.but u must write i love u becus and absolutely fill the page of positive thoughts.i did dis and he was over the moon.made his year he said.and everytime he gets down well i only have to tell him to look on his trophy and he smiles.good luck to u and go try it.pinkssssssssssss

Answer 8

my bloke would just go for the dirty loving - do a lap dance for him

then tell him to get a better job