How can i make my personality better?

Question

I have these habits or things that i do that drive my family and friends crazy and make them wanna kill me. The thing is sometimes i dont even know im doing them and it makes me even more fustrated with myself.

Things like:

twirling my hair

asking for peoples opinion too many times

saying "are you sure" for everything

not paying attention

calling myself fat all the time

asking everyone if i look ok

I know some of these things are anyoing as h**l but sometimes i dont even realise im doing it!!

How can i change myself so i can be less annoying?

ps. im not vain, its just im a bit insecure.

Oh yeah im 15.

Answer 1

yeaaaa......

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Answer 2

Stop doing what you listed above... And if you start to do it STOP.... You do sound rather annoying. I couldn't of hung out with you when I was younger...

Answer 3

Its called getting over your insecurities..... if you do the thins you listed above (minus hair twirling) enough to annoy everybody then you have some major insecurities to get over. Learn to not care what people think of you..if ur not willing to do that then your constant nagging habits will just simply continue.

You are obviously aware of your annoyances enough to list them...so ur very well aware that your doing them...ur being annoying by thinking you dont..

Answer 4

be more confident. i know a friend that does the same thing, just relax you probably look better than 50% of your school. and when your about to say something like "OMG I'm soooo ugly today and look how fat I am, I look like a cow" stop and be like "I look really pretty today" in your head even if you dont think that. no ones perfect looking and everyone has some sort of flaw. so relax and stop thinking the negatives, go with the big + positives hahaha

Answer 5

For one, twirling your hair isn't really a bad habit or a nuisance. It's just a small thing you do.

As for the rest...hm. Maybe you should stop saying these things completely - just stop whenever you find yourself thinking it. Smile and stop worrying about how you look or act! Just be yourself

Well, not paying attention isn't really a crime, I do that all the time.