How can i make myself to be happy?

Question

I'm hard of hearing. I have my man with beautiful twin girls. Somtime i getting myself little down because i have no friend so far. I don't know how to make friend. If i did, then why are these people start to be rude that i can't hear or laugh at me or make fun of me. I had best friends but they change and avoid me beause i have my kids. It made me think that none of them is not mature or cant deal their to grown up with me. Im sure some of you have the same problem but hard of hearing is really different than hearing. Sometime I'm jealous about hearing can hear better than me. I don't myself getting down or worst front my kids and my man. My kids, my man and i did hang out alot and have a great time but i want little my own you know, Girls out. Is anyone out there can help me or cheer me up ???

Answer 1

you may commit suicide? maybe you will get to heaven?

Answer 2

Read the book the "Secret" and watch the documentary the "Secret"

It will chance your life if you follow throughout all there is there for you to learn believe me you will be happy for ever!

Ps: You really need to follow throughout  and believe in you!

Answer 3

You need to ask yourself questions like 'What and why do certain things make me happy?" You have to start out by finding out about yourself. That's key. Smiles will appear instantly I promise! Good luck!

Read the book : Siddhartha

Answer 4

How can you make yourself happy? Be happy!! There is nothing easier than to just be happy, you will make yourself miserable trying to cultivate happiness. I have only two friends but they are the most honest friends and they are the most genuine, one of them lives in another state and one is my Wife. They are my best friends and i dont have any other friends but best friends if ever they deserted me I would simply be without. I never go out, what do i need to go out for when i have everything i truly need right at home. If i go out i go out with my wife, if i want to play, i play with my children. The secret to being happy is to be satisfied with what you have, something different may come along and then you just be satisfied with that, not wishing for something different but accepting fully what you have, completely without complaint. If your constantly chasing more and more and more you will only make yourself that more miserable. If what you have is not what you want then by all means go find something different, notice i said different and not MORE. Dont look for more find something different. If you look for more you will lose what you have, which should be enough and if it is enough then you just be satisfied with it. However if it is not then go find different but do not look for more.

Answer 5

If you force yourself to smile for two minuets, that will make you slightly more cheerful.

The fact that you are hard of hearing no doubt repels some friends away from you. How old are you? Maybe your friends aren't at the stage in their lives to have kids and don't want to see that you are.

Is English your first language? Try and find people like you.

Look where you are, and find people like you, but to find people like you, you have to find yourself.

Answer 6

Happiness come from the sense you are succeeding at whatever you think you SHOULD be doing.

If being a good wife & mother is what you think you SHOULD be doing, than doing that will make you happy.

But is sounds like you think you should be making friends.  

So by all means get a hearing aid.

Answer 7

Yes you could be more happy if you go to your doc and ask him to refer you to a hearing clinic. Just maybe a hearing aid would make your life happier. These devices are so small you hardly notice them.